I am 20. Her parents actually know my parents. My parents and her parents are classmates and best friends. We have actually been talking online, phone calling, postcard mailing, etc, for the past year and a half or so. This year I got a chance to go back to China and fully meet her in person and I have decided she will be the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. 236562[/snapback] Are you an ABC? I ask this because having your SO leave China and come to the US at a young age, alone, may be difficult. Being with a Chinese family here would help a great deal and should make for a smooth transition.