Tony something just doesn't match here. Unless maybe frugal means in Chinese don't spend much on little things, we need big money for big things. Yep, exactly right. I wanted to go visit her for a weekend, but she said we need to "save money". In the next breath she outlined several changes whe wanted made to the house ~ $30K B) Better Call Bob Villa and Norm. As far as the SUV (jeep) I may go with the Honda CRV. Good thing I'm not a home owner. If I get her here before year end I'll save a load on taxes. We may move to Tenn. and get a trailer next to Trigg.