Well I ain't buggering off. You posted here, you can deal with the opinions,good and bad, your post evokes. And I ain't complaining. I'm just commenting. Deal with it. You were blunt so I'll be. If you show the same intolerance, whininess and aversion to change in a marriage to a Chinese woman that you did in your trip to China, you might as well forget the visa and save the poor woman the aggravation.