1. I am offended my mcoon's comment about K1 being used for commiting visa fraud. Just because you get married first does not mean it not fraud. 2. I you think about it blue slips K-1 vs K-3. I think I have seen more K-3s get blue slipped than K-1. Dave, do what is right for you and your SO. You can get your loved one here in about the same time. Get married here or there, whatever you want, you don't need an atty.