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None of the above! Remember Tom Hanks in the movie "Big"? Where he wiped out his mouth after eating something? That's me and mooncake! (My wife loves mooncake, red bean is her favorite)

I think it is quite natural to be attached to the only thing known to you. My wife loves her country and is very proud... as she should be! Just as I am towards my country... except the immigration system!

Try a local college. There may be some exchange students or such that may be able to help.

When my wife received a blue slip, she was approached by someone telling her they could get a visa for $4000 with no interview!!! Lucy called me right away and I talked with this person for a few minutes. I asked this person to fax me Lucy's blue slip and supporting documents, they did. I then told Lucy to get back to Nanning quickly and we would figure out what to do next after she returned home. The rest is history... we succeeded in overcome without paying any outside source. The amazing thing is the fees this person was going to charge went from $4000 to $800 when they figured out we did not need them to succeed. I think I still have the email somewhere on my computer from this person basically begging to have me pay them for their service!

When we went to Dallas last week, Hong Kong marketplace had a huge display of several different price ranges. Man, were they expensive!!! My wife said no. Too much money. Her sister is sending some from China for her. I personally don't care for mooncakes but my wife loves it. Most Asian groceries should carry something. (EDIT) I just noticed on the links provided that shipping is $9 standard ground. I know Ranch 99's in California have mooncakes as we bought some last year. I know those members in Dallas can go to Hong Kong Marketplace and those in Houston can go to Chinatown. It just seems pricey for shipping but then again, gas is expensive as well!

This is what it's all about. The anxiety sets in and something clicks in your head that this step will soon be over. I'm sure all your ducks are in a row. It is time to check and double check. I wish you both good fortune!

So.... let me get this straight, we go from Texas Redneck troopers to Redneck jiberish. Then, to how Florida is the strongest state in the union!!! What was the topic again? (I hope Maggie is not too upset, it can be a stressful time)

I didn't go to my wife's first interview and she received a blue slip. I don't want to say what if but I have a hunch that if GUZ knew I was present in China, that blue would've been pink. So much paperwork was missing and I could have prevented that. I went for overcome and that was smooth. I was there for my wife and kids and I know that was what they needed, as well as what I needed, after the long, anxious month we all had. If you can.... go!!! Good luck!

My wife is what she is. I love it all... She did have her eyebrows darkened since she had faint hair growth there.

I have XP and QQ is no problem for us. Just make sure you have the updated version installed and a good anti-virus and spyware program...

I have a friend who just filed I-130 and I-485 at the same time. She was here on a tourist visa and met an American man with whom she was asked to marry. Her intent originally was to visit her brother and family. She extended her visa 1 time and as it was about to expire, filed the paperwork for the above. Maybe I missed something but what is the difference between what this thread and what my friend is doing AND she's allowed to stay in the states while waiting? I would like to believe that the authorities would understand that people's lives and intentions change. P.S. She is using a immigration lawyer!!!

East Texas reminds me of Illinois weather wise except............ no snow!!! (snicker snicker...) B) Congrats George... good fortunes!

I've been through overcome as has others. The KEY is to get the appointment early in the month but not too early because you want lead time to get there (To GUZ) or lead time to get the documents to your wife. Lee was correct in stating give them exactly what is asked for. This is the link for GUZ contact number http://guangzhou.usembassy-china.org.cn/vi...on_center_.html PM me if you would care for my experiences with this system. It was a few years ago but am sure I can lead you in the right direction. It wasn't all that difficult really, just time consuming and anxious. I arranged to be in GUZ for my wife's benefit even though I really had nothing to do in the presentation. I hand carried all the documents myself and organized them for her to submit.

WONDERFUL!!!

They wouldn't... The green card satisfies the proof of work eligibility and identity necessary to work in the United States. Most employers use an SS# as an identifier and we all know the SS# is used to deduct taxes from our paycheck. The concern for EAD has been the length of time it takes to receive the green card. In some cases I've heard of and seen, it takes just as long to get an EAD as it does the green card and the argument could be it's a waste of time and money Ron. Be well my friend!

As for a bank account, my wife needed two forms of Gov't issued I.D. and a SS#. We were in California at that time and B of A allowed her on my account with her Chinese passport as one form of I.D. and her USA K-1 visa as the other as both were deemed to be Gov't issued. From what we were told at the Hemet, California DMV office, they would accept her payment (of course ) for a state issued I.D. card but had to wait until she adjusted status (Green Card) until we would receive the actual card. I see why the DMV wouldn't give your wife I.D. but the bank account issue has me stumped.

Did I say I was stupid? You don't know me Curt so back off please. I'm offended by your postings.

Is there some reason you can't cook that roast yourself????? Yeah... I'm a lazy SOB!

Not to be a party pooper but I am getting tired of Chinese food. We eat it all the time. When she shops, it is only to cook Chinese food recipes. My fridge is full of Chinese veggies and my freezer full of dumplings and pigs feet. Damn, what I would do for a pot roast slow roasted with red bliss potatoes and carrots. For dessert, cherry cheesecake. (BTW, my wife uses peanut oil, little saturation and no taste interference with her cooking)

We lived in Murrieta, California when my wife first arrived. Lots of people, lots of traffic and a high Asian influence. No friends, no contacts... nothing at all for my wife in the beginning. We moved to East Texas where the Asian population was measured at approx. 3% and this included all Asian races, not just Chinese. I'm thinking, "dammit, this better work out or else" I've mentioned several times in this forum on how well my wife has taken to East Texas. She has a great church and a foray of friends of several different cultures, including Chinese. It has been a Godsend for us. The kids have also flourished since coming here. My daughter Lulu says... "Ni Hao Y'all" and "I reckon so Baba" Talk about adjustment!

Ron, We used a Dr. Lee in Temecula back in 2006. About $165 and this included 3 shots.

That is exactly what I was told when I went to ACH in GUZ. When we were given denial paperwork, it was under many conditions but primarily checking for fraud. GUZ wanted proof that my ex was no longer living nor connected to me in any way financially (bank acct's, loans, trust funds, retirement, etc...) The fear I suspect is that the beneficiary is getting visa to meet up with a spouse or whatever in the USA and circumvent the whole visa process.

Sounds like you can have the best of both worlds to me. I would let this simmer for a bit and then decide. Don't know the thought process you've been through but it seems you've weighed the pros n cons. Maybe you're missing some of the pros of being a U.S. permanent resident. Good Luck either way and keep on this board from time to time.

"You People"? We manage. It has been difficult at times but so is working in an industry that has many Spanish speaking workers. I guess you adapt and overcome any obstacles that are present. Many forms of communication involve other methods besides verbal anyway.

It was explained to me by our IO the reason and that is of partiality. The family member will insert words and meanings into a phrase or answer and ruins the whole integrity of the process. (Their words, not mine) The translator is sworn in and must show ID.