Zhenghong

I will try this for many know my english no good. me now together here with cfl 5 year now. I am Chongqing girl. I meet my husband (nuworld) on internet in 2005. we chat on email only for one year. my husband decide to come to chongqing and visit me in 2006 for two week. we marry each other for it feel right. (my family very no happy) husband go home to america and take care of visa papers. he send k3 and cr1 together. one year and one day after marriage book we go for interview for k3 visa. during interview no questions asked only man in window say you visa changed to cr1 and give my blue paper. blue paper say need medicine shots. i get question taken care of same day of interview and try to get visa again. man in window say wait 90 days and then we give you visa. 90 days now all gone and i have visa. my husband can not be with me for travel to america for his work to busy. i must travel alone to new country. for me this no problem for me smart girl. husband buy me airplane ticket and i arrive in american on 08/27/2008 at first i find america very difficult to understand but i learn fast. for first few week i stay at home and fix it for more liking for both of us. then my husband get me job at his company. that was 6 years ago and me still work at same company and make good money. we now have 8 years marriage book together. new house, new car with no payment and a new house in chongqing. visa very difficult to get but every people get visa. maybe take longer for some to get but feel good latter when get visa. america is good to me but me still miss china. though my life in china small no good as younger girl me still miss my land. our marriage book together is very good and me feel will last forever.

You name moondog? Sorry for my english is not good. My husband tell me i should look at this massage and maybe help understand. I married to american man now for 8 years now. I be in america 7 years now. My ameican husband is my number 2 husband for i marry ago in china to first husband. this not work for me at young years so marriage book brake. My family very no happy with me and tell me go away. my father tell me you no more my daughter you have dishonored your family. i can not say what this feel like but i go away and family is gone. I travel china alone with myself trying to live alone for i am used goods and not wanted. it very hard time for me. My husband tell me of your story and i can feel the pain again. It make many years before family take me back. Today, family will never forget my shame to the family and they bring me back. I marry a man in america in 2006 again family no happy. But after family look a new husband and talk,eat,drink there is something new. I now have a new life, family and love again. It was a long hard road but my god helped me me. My husband said i should teach you chinese culture. chinese culture is 5000 years and i do not understand this time. for i only understand my time in the world. i can not teach you with email I can read small english but i see it could be good if your world and her world work together try and look in her eyes and see what you see in her eyes and you will feel her world and then understand. my name hong and i understand losing face for i live it ago

Catherineli, my name zhenghong my friends call me hong. my husband tell me that new chinese woman together on cfl. i say your english is much better than me. my husband tell me i should write more here on cfl but my english very no good as you. I can read and understand the english words but very difficult for me to write. I speak very good english but the write very no good.

Same question. vary want my sister to come for visit.

Today me and husband finish work and every day we stop at same beer store to get food for today. husband buy small beer and me buy food for dinner. We drive to go home and sit to wait to turn. we just stting ther. and one very younger boy turn and crash to one car and to my car. i no drive car for husband and me work same hour and together so husband drive car. now my car no perfect no more and car good money to buy. why this boy crash to my car?

You wife very beautiful you ring same. i remember have to say good bye to my husband. this no easy question and my hart feel no good to say good bye. love feel reel then it ok you will join together again soon. wish you many years together.

thank you randy w i no understand what to say but thank you. i will now write letters in this new adress.

I think you no understand chinese that good. chinese people understand for we live in china more than you. we understand the culture and history. hong kong was taken from us then gave back. if you never live it before then you will never understand. less you have china in your blood you can not understand and feel what we go everyday. this question go back many year you need to live the years ago. I will not say happy new year to you for you no understand 中国语言 Hong kong and taiwan no important to you for you no Chinese. Just for you go to school to teach you my culture you will never understand. read and study much as you want you will never feel my culture and what Chinese people have been though for many thousand years. You never understand the hard ship of lost of family during the many thousand years of my country. you think you live in my country but you not live here you just stay here You call you Fu Lai 富莱 the Falcon this you are not. I now understand why no chinese woman join cfl. many my girl friends join cfl ago and say the people here have no hart for chinese girl and leave cfl. I join many year ago and come back and try again. is see now it same ago. Fu Lai the Falcon have 黑哈特 现在，我会去

We fly on plane Never tried to move furniture on a plane or even several hundred kg of boxes. Have you? Yes i have.

I think you no understand chinese that good. chinese people understand for we live in china more than you. we understand the culture and history. hong kong was taken from us then gave back. if you never live it before then you will never understand. less you have china in your blood you can not understand and feel what we go everyday. this question go back many year you need to live the years ago.

We fly on plane

Waste money

transcripts! transcripts! is the only way to go.

welcome to cfl. I am chinese woman now in U.S. There are many chinese woman members here. You will find good help here. Try looking here to find chinese members. http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?showforum=16

Thank you Carl and Dan all everyone else for your wonderful posts. I'm not sure what i want at this time. Maybe change to U.S. woman or stay Chinese woman? I do not know now. Michael and i have talked a lot about this topic. I see good and bad about becoming a U.S. woman. But Michael and i want to retire in China and Buy more houses for us to rent and give to family. If i become U.S. woman we can not do this. U.S. people can not buy house in China. But now that my 10 GC is on it's way. We have very much time to think about it. I am not worried. Hong

I already posted the gelding has started and being here in nanjing with jesse and lan has been a 24 hour education in teasing and sarcasm... @Hong: Don't worry Hong, I appreciate your post. Michael only writes me to ask how much jiu I have consumed, and have a bottle for him! Don't worry about Don's teasing; you've not revealed anything about a secret mission... that's still well guarded but you did reveal to the public (and therefore Michael) and you and i have chatted in the past Maybe keep talking about Don's post and keep everyone's attention on that.. hey, that's the ticket No problem david, It is not a problem if people understand we chat. Michael already know we chat together and it is ok with him. Yes!! Michael very like jiu. Hong

Amanda, From one Chinese woman to the other! My feeling? 1. I miss my family and REAL Chinese food.(I felt the same! The food you can get from Chinese market and cook your self) (don't worry about husband?) 2.I am eager to have a job to feel myself useful to sociaty. I am not sure what visa you are in U.S. from but i understand how you feel. I was in U.S. for one month and had no job, Relax! you will fine something soon. ( Your husband will take care of you) Just enjoy your new life. I came to the U.S with CR1 visa. Husband likes Chinese food. Everyday I cook Chinese food twice for lunch and dinner. Yes i am to in U.S. on CR1 visa. Michael only eat Chinese food. I cook every night when we go home from work.

I come home today and look at computer for emails. Many garbage emails but one very good one. Michael and i can relax now for 10 years and enjoy!! I'm so happy and proud of husband. He is very good at doing these visa papers. Hong

Amanda, From one Chinese woman to the other! My feeling? 1. I miss my family and REAL Chinese food.(I felt the same! The food you can get from Chinese market and cook your self) (don't worry about husband?) 2.I am eager to have a job to feel myself useful to sociaty. I am not sure what visa you are in U.S. from but i understand how you feel. I was in U.S. for one month and had no job, Relax! you will fine something soon. ( Your husband will take care of you) Just enjoy your new life.

Yes I would. I would change my beneficiary and add her 1/4 and she would have the home I have. Larry, I do not know you but i am Chinese woman here in U.S.. I am sure you love your girl/wife very much. I am not sure where she is from but Chinese woman just wants family and love!! I have been here for two years now and my husband has taken good care of me and my family in China. U.S. man can be good and can be bad. It is hard to tell in the beginning but time will tell. What does your hard say?? You take care of her, She will take care of you for ever. Yes I will take care of her! I just want to be fair to my children. Very good, You are good man. Family come first.

Very good answer!!

I love you don!

Not sure if some has said this before? So i will start it now. Michael is being very lazy now looking at Chinese TV and will not help me. So I am doing this by my self. CFL seams to be a place for US/Chinese people to get married? Very simple question. WHY??

Sorry!! I did not know?? David just PM together. He good friend. Sorry don? Your husband will explain - I'm teasing you. Michael now very lazy and look at TV. But he look and say don't worry. Don just crazy and love Chinese woman? He tell me to make new post and new question. So i think now what to say. I do not want to get in trouble?

Sorry!! I did not know?? David just PM together. He good friend. Sorry don?