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lucky for me my SO. had me say her friend name before i met her, what my SO say i said, I would have been slapped very very hard.

Ok, i seen the chinaism for you SO from china how about the other way around. just how bad have you slaughter thier language. When i try to say some vietnamese to my SO her and her sisters all double over and laugh for a good 30 min. she still will not tell me what I said wrong, only was told not to repeat it again in front of a male unless i want a black eye. my SO still grin every time i try to say thank you Cam on the on sound should be "un" like in it saying than on she giggle everytime is mess up Robert

jenny you have 5000 dollars to invest into property in china? is so put your father name on it and use it as showing he has ties in china, after he here a few time you can extend his time and when your husband get citizenship he have easier time getting here show he travel and return a few time. the 5000 dollars on property could be use to build a house on or refix one there. more than 5 k show more likely he return back to china. the other is offer a bond to show he will return. I sure i read somewhere a bond can be issue to make sure the person will return back to country they came from.

There a outfit in america that will check your SO college background and show if it acreddit or not. Missouri Education dept gave me several address that i send her transcript to plus a fee and wait to see if her college eduction in teaching quilifies her to be a teacher in Missouri. Also talk to the local college and they may allow her 3 year of college to equal 60 credit hours of general education so she could substitute teach. I figure there has to be other like that for medical, I know of a doctor here that from tawian and another from india both got degree from their own countries.

try tourist and have him go back each time if accepted. or check into a work visa

if they just make round trip tickets 500 or less i be going once a month for a few days

knowing my SO view. mary would be the most immoral to sleep with another man would be shameful. and bob the least for taking on a woman that is shamed. robert

email and mail you congressman and sentor everyday for a month about what happen. send them pitures of your family explain what going on, that you feel it racism get them stirred up be the hornetnest that dropped in their lap

my step son already calling me father and dad in english, as far as my wife is concern our son is my too in blood, she never seen her son open up to a man as he does to me. first time we meet he had to take a nap, and his mom lay down with him toput him to sleep, he climb out of the bed and grab my hand and pull me to the bed to lay with them both. my wife cried for an hour and the feeling i had in my heart was something i hope to never lose. i'm adopting him as soon as I can, as far as i'm concern he my first born. oh and he 4 years old andlearning english. robert

unless i'm working i see if i can show up, only a 4 hour drive for me robert

Try www.bt-store.com they been the cheapest for me in the midwest going to viet nam about 200 to 2000 cheaper than everyone else. robert

best news ever! robert and thoa

heard delta having a polit strike problem soon

I been curious about this because my SO son name is Dang and I can see a lot of problems with school children teasing I call him Hai Dang like his mother do, but I been figuring on letting him decide on a american name on his own, I not got around to asking my SO about this considering Dang mean one thing in her language and another in ours and both sound the same when saying it. robert

Pimsleur in the car help me on viet namese with my wife, sometime I think it help her with her humor at my accents and mispronouncing but CD lang tape in car is great for me that trave 70 miles a day to classes and home Robert

Thanks everyone for the encouragement and advice. I will heed tigress and Franks advice and try that route. Larry, I wrote a professional letter to Marta Harty. I was just venting frustration here. I am frustrated by the way our government branches are being administrated. FEMA is a good example. There are people having interviews that submitted initial paperwork after we received GUZ numbers. I am happy for them but it doesn't make sense. Its like their throwing darts and picking the file. I am sure there is a few that need extra evaluation but there is no distinct or logical pattern to the processing. I will keep trying. Thanks Again 186640[/snapback] follow up with a e-mail could help tooo

I have the green thumb, my SO can cook very well, so I see myself adding more veggies to the garden than before. Robert

yeah but is it good for the dogs? or the doghouse? sorry, just back from viet nam Robert

Thanks all for your responses. Based on input here and that recieved while chatting in the CFL Lounge, I think I am proceeding on a couple of paths. One, I have emailed the GZ consulate explaning our situation and asked if there is any way around the requirement for the Cert of Divorce. Based on Frank's helpful thoughts, my fiancee will also be checking her hometown to see if, by chance, the Cert of Marriageability is not required there. And I'm of course also pushing on CA and AK to see how quickly the Cert's of Divorce can be gotten to me. 185833[/snapback] I love it when people pay attention. You seem to have all the bases covered. I wish you success in your endeavor. A further thought is to ask GUZ if they will accept a faxed divorce decree. I doubt the CA and AZ will fax to China but a relative could do so after receiving the originals. WA mailed mine the day after my request. 185835[/snapback] when i got my birth cert from CA the form states that to expect 6 to 12 months for divorce or death cert, 1 month for birth records, took 4 month to get my birth records. you can have a family member walk into and pick up your divorce records. only thing they have to do is get a notary stating they are your brother, sister or mother. Robert I'm from missouri my divorce record i can get from my court house in 15 min

state of mind but at least it not a TN accent that a whole different language. as for learning english my SO teacher been taught by both a australian and a brit. and has slaughter the english language, i must have corrected about 20 words spoken wrong in the first week we been together. robert

i'm sending a notarized copy of the marriage license and both my wife and son birth cert. in both app. just to cover all bases. mininual is nice but at this point i rather lean to piling it on than being ask for more info and delay. Robert hopefully I get our marriage license square away.

You are an adult. Make your own decisions. You take them to the notarial office in HK. The translations must be certified correct by the notary. Optionally, you may get them translated by somebody at the Chinese Consulate if they will and there is one nearby. 178574[/snapback] I'm going to reply to myself again because I was in a hurry before. If you are still planning to arrive in HK 5 or 6 weeks from now you are pretty much out of time to get your certificate of marriageability. As I mentioned before, you have to file all this in HK for (was it 30 days?) BEFORE you can get married. If you haven't already gotten your documents to your SO and had her take them in to obtain notarized translations, AND obtained your certificate of marriageability, you won't be getting married in HK in February. 178582[/snapback] i think you can have 15 days notice in advance to get married in hk thought about doing that route last june then another 15 days for someone to file against it robert

on this site Robert

Maybe we need another forum line on Bringing relatives to america for visit, this is starting to pop up more and we need one area for this to be in. I know I may need this in the future to have her family member come visit once in a while.

it would be interesting to get jen opinion on the holidays on how she handle it. I think it be interesting reading how one SO veiw the holdiay compare the the other. Me and My SO would write down what we thought about the day before turning it, it was interesting reading to see what she thought was important and what I thought was. She ask me to bring more notebooks she miss reading my thoughts. robert