dustyone

sorry about being so long getting back to everyone. Thank you all so much for your help some times the way uscis words things it gets very confusing. agian thank you all.

ok this is most likely a silly question but I have read so much that it is confusing me so much. Wife is wanting to file for citizenship and my question is will are 15 year old son ride on her form like a greencard or will he have to file his own paperwork? Any info would be great thanks everyone.

thank you for the reply and yes my time line needs updated things did not go well the first time and now a redo.

Its been a while but I am back agian I have a question I did not get any smarter doing all the paper work the first time. I am filling out all the paper work for my wife and stepson and I have looked and looked but not sure about fee,s for him. I had it in my head that his was less as a ride along with his mom but not sure I do not want to mess it up. and help would be great. Thanks dustyone

who said this? I did ?

I do not want everyone to think I am down on china . I am not to be truthful there are so many good things that I do not know where to start . I love my family very much and have no regrets about the chocies I have made I stand 100% with them and my family. But to be truthful I get a little sad when I read where everyone thinks that the only way to think is the chinese way? As I have said there is much good to thinking that way and my family has mleted together over time. But I read post where others have said we need to change everything so it is like they are still in china ? In case's like mine and others here are famileys are not in china they are in the u.s.a and life has to change to that it is not fair to are partners to protect them and keep ever thing as it was in china for them. What happens if there is a death and they have to take the lead they need to know what to do.

I do not feel this way myself. but if you read back on posts by others you will see a large nunber that feel they should retire to china and because they have married a chinese partner in life that everything has to change to chinese thinking . some of it is good I will say that some of it is right in that thinking. When my wife and I frist got together I wanted to learn chinese so she would be more relaxed here. But she told me if we ever move to china she will teach me but we live in the usa.

folks just because you marry some one from china do's not make china perfect.

When I call my wife before she arrived here or while she has been back visiting family that means that she did not turn the cell phone on. Many times it is a case of only turning the phone on when they want to use it.

do it while it is still there. My wife and I ran into this also. We put a lawyer on it right away and it took about a week and a few papers and she was mailed her visa. but try and keep it in china!!!!!

good luck mama bear I know you will do good. patrick and shan

when my wife and I had a short delay are lawyer there handled everything on it. My wife just went into his office and picked up the visa.

the lawyer I used in guanzhou is danny shaw. His number is (8620)22835665 he did a very good job for me. And with a phone call from him to visa office it stayed in guanzhou. patrick and shan

alright gil hang in there buddy the time will pass quickly.

Hello all just wanted to give everyone a update. Wife interview was 6/14/06. And everything went good she said until close to the end. They asked her about 15 questions. about me are house in kansas city.ect. The last question they asked her about was my ex-wife. What she thought about us getting married. I had told my wife about her but had not talked a lot. We had been divoried for just short of 18 years. She replyed that she did not know what my ex thought about it. So that was the delay I had to find my ex and send documents showing were she was etc. But after finding her and getting the info from her. Everything went ok and the visa was granted. For those coming up too there interview. If there is a ex out there some place. info on them with you is maybe a good thing. What they asked me for was notierzed copys of utility bills, a copy of her new marriage lic. patrick

things are starting to move agian

called dos this morning and after being told the day before may be 6 months found out that the p-4 was sent on 04/25/06 and the interview date is 06/14/06. its about time. patrick

ribeye steak tater tots and salad.

Alright mama bear one more step done.

I have used visarite three times and they really go out of there way to serve you. very good people to work with.

Well we are all in the same boat together. We maybe be in differt parts of the united states and are so may be all over china but we all feel the same pain. and at times the same lost feelings that it is never going to end. But it will and thankfuly we all do not have bad days on the same day there is always some one having a good day to cheer us up. patrick

Congratulations

good going I am happy for you !!!!

It is hard paula we all know that but stay strong and soon it will be over.

thanks lee but we have it covered on that kept copys of everything just hate to have to send them agian.