woainilin Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 (edited) IF a VO asks you .. (as a man)... why do you like your fiance/wife? What would you answer? Yesterday someone is practicing questions with Lin .. and said ..There are always US men here with Chinese woman .. you are different. Then they ask .. why do you like her? Lin replied B) .. I don't know .. why do you like your girlfriend? The guy also says I don't know .... At first I was a little worried or concerned .. hmmmmmmmmm why doesn't he know why he likes me .. I know why I like him. Then I begin asking men around me why they like their wife .. unnanamous (sorry can't spell) answer .. I don't know ........ Is this just a Chinese man thing .. or a Man thing? Edited August 21, 2006 by woainilin (see edit history) Link to comment
drive_75 Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 IF a VO asks you .. (as a man)... why do you like your fiance/wife? What would you answer? Yesterday someone is practicing questions with Lin .. and said ..There are always US men here with Chinese woman .. you are different. Then they ask .. why do you like her? Lin replied .. I don't know .. why do you like your girlfriend? The guy also says I don't know .... At first I was a little worried or concerned .. hmmmmmmmmm why doesn't he know why he likes me .. I know why I like him. Then I begin asking men around me why they like their wife .. unnanamous (sorry can't spell) answer .. I don't know ........ Is this just a Chinese man thing .. or a Man thing?239101[/snapback]I think it's a guy thing. My SO asked me and I didn't know what to say. She wasn't happy about it. Link to comment
Dan R Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 To me it seems easy. It is because of the feeling I get when she is around, the emptiness I feel when she is not and how quickly that emptiness is filled by any reminder of her or the sound of her voice. Link to comment
NewDay2006 Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 To me it seems easy. It is because of the feeling I get when she is around, the emptiness I feel when she is not and how quickly that emptiness is filled by any reminder of her or the sound of her voice.239107[/snapback]Great answer dude. I know it is true, but sometimes we don't know to say it when asked. We usually say it after she walks away mad or crying Link to comment
Stone Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 IF a VO asks you .. (as a man)... why do you like your fiance/wife? What would you answer? Yesterday someone is practicing questions with Lin .. and said ..There are always US men here with Chinese woman .. you are different. Then they ask .. why do you like her? Lin replied .. I don't know .. why do you like your girlfriend? The guy also says I don't know .... At first I was a little worried or concerned .. hmmmmmmmmm why doesn't he know why he likes me .. I know why I like him. Then I begin asking men around me why they like their wife .. unnanamous (sorry can't spell) answer .. I don't know ........ Is this just a Chinese man thing .. or a Man thing?239101[/snapback]'Don't know' does not bode well for the interview. Your SO needs to search his heart and find the answer. There are so many women in the world. Why he decides to choose you must have a reason. Marriage is a life-long commitment, he must know the answer as well as what he will do once he gets here. Link to comment
chilton747 Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 IF a VO asks you .. (as a man)... why do you like your fiance/wife? What would you answer? Yesterday someone is practicing questions with Lin .. and said ..There are always US men here with Chinese woman .. you are different. Then they ask .. why do you like her? Lin replied .. I don't know .. why do you like your girlfriend? The guy also says I don't know .... At first I was a little worried or concerned .. hmmmmmmmmm why doesn't he know why he likes me .. I know why I like him. Then I begin asking men around me why they like their wife .. unnanamous (sorry can't spell) answer .. I don't know ........ Is this just a Chinese man thing .. or a Man thing?239101[/snapback]'Don't know' does not bode well for the interview. Your SO needs to search his heart and find the answer. There are so many women in the world. Why he decides to choose you must have a reason. Marriage is a life-long commitment, he must know the answer as well as what he will do once he gets here.239127[/snapback]When one makes a commitment to marriage then the answer to the question of why do you like your SO should come flowing out uninhibited. Don't ya think? Link to comment
Guest pushbrk Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 IF a VO asks you .. (as a man)... why do you like your fiance/wife? What would you answer? Yesterday someone is practicing questions with Lin .. and said ..There are always US men here with Chinese woman .. you are different. Then they ask .. why do you like her? Lin replied .. I don't know .. why do you like your girlfriend? The guy also says I don't know .... At first I was a little worried or concerned .. hmmmmmmmmm why doesn't he know why he likes me .. I know why I like him. Then I begin asking men around me why they like their wife .. unnanamous (sorry can't spell) answer .. I don't know ........ Is this just a Chinese man thing .. or a Man thing?239101[/snapback]'Don't know' does not bode well for the interview. Your SO needs to search his heart and find the answer. There are so many women in the world. Why he decides to choose you must have a reason. Marriage is a life-long commitment, he must know the answer as well as what he will do once he gets here.239127[/snapback]When one makes a commitment to marriage then the answer to the question of why do you like your SO should come flowing out uninhibited. Don't ya think?239131[/snapback]It depends on how good you are with words and communication. When put on the spot, this can be pretty difficult. When I covered this with my wife, her first answer really wasn't a "why" but just a declaration of love. I asked her to list reasons she loved me and then I crafted an English sentence to say those things. It was pretty simple. "I love him because he is good hearted, clever and handsome. Also, he makes me laugh." Link to comment
jim_julian Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 "Good heart" is pretty safe ground. Fits with Chinese culture. Translates OK. Can't see any pitfalls. Link to comment
jemmyell Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 He should just reply that you are loving, happy, and care deeply for him. Then he should say that you are also beautiful, but he is only lucky since that does not matter so much. -James Link to comment
woainilin Posted August 21, 2006 Author Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 He should just reply that you are loving, happy, and care deeply for him. Then he should say that you are also beautiful, but he is only lucky since that does not matter so much. -James239177[/snapback]Thanks Guys.. I am not in the least concerned of IF he loves me .. I am 100% positive because of his actions and commitment. He says when he is not with me he is uncomfortable .. and has no interest when he is not talking to me or with me .. but he is worried that this answer is not good enough. Spent today at work asking the guys why do they like their wife/girlfriend ..seems some have very good answers ..some are like .. HUH?? Many say because she takes care of me........ Hope they don't ask this question becauses I think he is not comfortable expressing feelings to strangers and that it might be construed as something else. Link to comment
SmilingAsia Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 My old Sam never knows anything but he does know why he always loves me. "You are what I expect. Smart, funny, sexy."I'm really not sure I'm this good as he thinks. Link to comment
michaln Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 because I am happy when she is near sad when she is not the thought of my wife puts a smile on my face and my heart skips a beat when she answers the phone looking into her eyes takes my breath away Link to comment
SmilingAsia Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 because I am happy when she is near sad when she is not the thought of my wife puts a smile on my face and my heart skips a beat when she answers the phone looking into her eyes takes my breath away239223[/snapback]Why people from California sound like poets? Link to comment
wpc76180 Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 because I am happy when she is near sad when she is not the thought of my wife puts a smile on my face and my heart skips a beat when she answers the phone looking into her eyes takes my breath away239223[/snapback]Why people from California sound like poets?239229[/snapback]Earthquakes will make anybody poetic Link to comment
SmilingAsia Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 Why people from California sound like poets?239229[/snapback]Earthquakes will make anybody poetic 239241[/snapback]I thought quakes have made Californians good dancers of rock n roll Link to comment
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