BuffaloPaul Posted June 1, 2005 Report Share Posted June 1, 2005 Maybe that is the key to Triggs happiness Secret to a good marriage Link to comment
Dan R Posted June 1, 2005 Report Share Posted June 1, 2005 Interesting Paul. That was part of our problem before. She would constantly remind me of all the things she thought I had done wrong or slighted her with over the past 30 years. Most of it I could barely remember happening. I don't know if it needs to be delusional. Certainly letting go of things is important to success. I am very curious to know a year or two from now how we will be handling this. Link to comment
rogerluli Posted June 1, 2005 Report Share Posted June 1, 2005 Maybe that is the key to Triggs happiness Secret to a good marriageI think you have it Paul. There is no doubt that the Triggster is delusional... And as for being forgetful, well with the brain damage from mop slapping... He is not the head sheepherder for no good reason... Link to comment
rogerluli Posted June 1, 2005 Report Share Posted June 1, 2005 She would constantly remind me of all the things she thought I had done wrong or slighted her with over the past 30 years. Most of it I could barely remember happening. Exactly the pattern with my ex also. I appreciate Luli so much because she is totally incapable of this kind of passive-aggressive subterfuge. If there is something she doesn't like I know about it right away and then it's gone. If I bring it up again and tell her I am sorry she replies, "no sorry." It's dead and done for her and we move on from there... Link to comment
tonado Posted June 1, 2005 Report Share Posted June 1, 2005 Interesting Paul. That was part of our problem before. She would constantly remind me of all the things she thought I had done wrong or slighted her with over the past 30 years. Most of it I could barely remember happening. I don't know if it needs to be delusional. Certainly letting go of things is important to success. I am very curious to know a year or two from now how we will be handling this.Did you watch the movie "Fifty first Dates"? The wife's memory is only 1 day old. After she goes to sleep, she forgets everything. Link to comment
warpedbored Posted June 1, 2005 Report Share Posted June 1, 2005 This really hits home. My ex wife remembered every little crappy thing I ever did regardless of how trivial. She would draw them out like a weapon in an arguement. Link to comment
tonado Posted June 1, 2005 Report Share Posted June 1, 2005 This really hits home. My ex wife remembered every little crappy thing I ever did regardless of how trivial. She would draw them out like a weapon in an arguement.We should only keep a list of good things our spouses had done. Not like the Santa's list (who is bad). Link to comment
LeeFisher3 Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 In relationships with American women it has always seemed to be about completion, who¡¯s right, who¡¯s fault, who¡¯s in charge, who hurt whom first. No winners in a battle to break the other¡¯s will. As far as I can tell with Chinese women it seems to be about relationship and caring, if she feels hurt or offended something is said and she normally follows it with ¡°don¡¯t do it again¡± and it¡¯s over. I can¡¯t say that I have felt anything but love from her even when she has scolded me. The only competition I have found is who can bring happiness and joy to the other and in this competition everyone seems to win. Link to comment
Yuanyang Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 I didn't see anything about mops in that link. ??? Link to comment
Trigg Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 I didn't see anything about mops in that link. ???Mops are a philosophical state of the delusional mind. delusion=goodreality=bad Link to comment
Dan R Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 I didn't see anything about mops in that link. ???Mops are a philosophical state of the delusional mind. delusion=goodreality=badBut isn't reality a delusion? Link to comment
eeyore Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 Not sure about the secret to a good marriage but I see Trigg has found the secret to a good avitar. Does your wife know about that photo??? I'm thinkin, not!!! Link to comment
david_dawei Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 American woman always have a 'laundry list' of items about their man... Chinese woman generally live in the present not the past nor future... This is not 'forgetfulness'... it is just NOW... what a concept ! Link to comment
ptcrusier333rph Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 hmmmmmm debating hmmmmmmmmm nope not getting on the bad ex bandwagon today tooo happy robert Link to comment
Dan R Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 hmmmmmm debating hmmmmmmmmm nope not getting on the bad ex bandwagon today tooo happy robertGood for you Robert. You are already getting the hang of the now. Link to comment
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