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hakkamike

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  1. There are a few Ciites around the world that have this same type of driving restrictions year round. I know Greece is one of them in the Athens area around the Placa.
  2. Looks like ur DIY earthbox's are working out for U
  3. Good luck on finding one that will not release steam/ water vapor
  4. Intersting study subjects So what did you have for breakfast this morning Ever limit out on sea trout before noon? I have He is having the same as me a few cups of coffee and a cig or two..
  5. I agree with you David, this aint Rocket Science or is it?
  6. give her the farm in confidence... its not uncommon for an extended stay. maybe she can go over by herself than when the 3 months is up you make the puddle jump and have a little vaction for yourself and bring your family home. Not a bad idea but do you know the answer to my question? If a worse case scenario happened, I would need a lot of help. Why do you think a worse case? I believe you should talk to your wife in a very open way. Say all of your concern and your love for her. and then see her response. Only you can judge your relationship with her. If you trust her she will trust you! Good luck. Amanda Amanda, I have reason to believe that I can both trust her and not trust her. For the most part I do trust her. I do not have a desire to quote specific examples of things in our lives that would make me ask this question. I do want her and my son to visit China and see her family even though the outcome could be bad. I have talked to her very openly. But unfortunately, you cannot take things back that you have said previously, even if you apologize for it. Quite frankly, she thinks our child is hers and not so much mine. Is that a cultural difference? She is the one who stays home and takes care of him. And I respect that. She has not adapted to America as well as I would have liked. The Chinese always know best. But in my opinion, that is not always the case. This has nothing to do with trust and everything to do with the worst case scenario legal issue in the small chance should it happen. As son's mother, she can extend son's China visa in order to stay in China for longer time.It is not difficult for her to do if she wants.As for she thinks your son is hers not so much yours, what I believe is for Chinese women,their children are one of the most important persons in the world.I cannot say if this is cultural difference but as a mother of myself, when I wanted to divorce many years ago,I tried my best to be custody of my son. If you wanted her to give up custody of your son, I think it is very difficult because son is always her part of life. Well, your son is at his such a young age and your wife has to take care of him everyday, does she have enough time to adapt to the real USA sociaty so well? She even has no chance to do such kind of things especially your son is so little. So my suggestion is to talk ,talk and talk to her. Good communication always does work. I do not think she wants to raise your son alone because raising a child is not easy to do in China as a single mother. What I mentioned is not only money. Wish two of you are the best. Amanda from China Yes you may be right that he may not even be the father
  7. Sorta like you can go but the P@#$y has to stay here lol lol..
  8. You really never really said if her and her daughter got their Visas
  9. Yes honey I go for 3 weeks love you long time, sorry honey I think you say 3 months lol lol, u stupid man u say 3 monts u no no nothing stupid, for that I show u 3 more months u stupid..
  10. I wish that the wife and girls will go back to China for a year or 3 but it aint happened yet, damnit... And really what is the worst thing that can happen, she goes over with the kid and you never see either again, then 20 years later he looks you up and you have a new woman or man in your life, its all good
  11. Why dont you try to find something to take over that wont get digested?
  12. She is the petitioner.. Thanks Mike somehow I thought that she was the beneficiary Sorry to be so short on my post as I am the most or all of the time but it switches when your better half gets here, they are the petitioner.. Some how it dont make sense and then again it does..
  13. We specificly did not want to do that. She might need some of that if you buy a house later or if she keeps bank accounts. If she stays in the retirement program. Many things might require her Hukou. Or it does not work out between you two, her Hukou is a good thing to have for her..
  14. Under these circumstances, I think it is perfectly all right to do what she did. There is no need for embarrassment, arresting, AIDS testing etc. This is just pure, natural maternal instinct! Even in the US, I have seen mothers breast feeding their babies in public places such as airport, hospital waiting room, doctor's office waiting rooms etc. Usually they cover the baby with a baby blanket or a coat etc. Ken88 She has Aids, I was thinking the same thing, can she be prosecuted..
  15. You are a modern country and you have Milkmen to feed your babies . In China, especially in the country we do weird things like women breast feed babies . We even have a saying "the one who has milk is Mother" (you nai bian shi niang) You may be supprised how many women breast feed here in the states?, I really do not know where you are getting your information from??
  16. Now if a guy was doing this it would make for a better story..
  17. He does not live there right now, he has a place in China like many others here..
  18. Sounds to me that you have no reason to be in the USA anyway as far as work related issues, if that is the case why not make the move? There are a lot of things here that motivate people, I would not think that it really matters how many people here are living in China from CFL, U have to do what u have to do????? One more thing I do not know of anyone that is there living their life full time there that are CFL members right now?? Someone prove me wrong please???
  19. Dont worry Carl as soon as most of the women learn English they will also know the word Dumbass, I guess I am one of the lucky ones, Lusheng spoke English before she got here and knew I was and still am a Dumbass, good luck to all of u Dumbass's out there and I can see there are many
  20. Yes, Eric. The Nanning Hairless...a very unique breed of women. Close to the Mexcan Hairless I think.
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