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  1. Thanks for sharing the story . I am so glad that you have good faith in your partner considering this is China. That itself shows a bonafide relationship. a lot of women stray in order to make extra money. About United Family , they are good clinic but when they are small ; I m not sure how up to date they are with assays and test kits. I peaked around when I was there. It seems that their lab is very small. They don't have the big lab that major Chinese hospitals in Guangzhou has . Once in a while , a shock like this may happen, unfortunately , but, after retest , it was concluded to be a false positive. Your woman is not the first one with this experience and won't be the last , unfortunately. But, your persistence and faith really deserve special praise ! Again, a BIG congrat !
  2. Since she has not worked at all the past three years, they may want to know how she has supported herself so far ? Stay home wife ( like mine ) , rich parent(s) , be someone's else concubine " Bao Er Nai " ( this will cause a rejection since it may be considered as prostitution ,,,, etc.... ) . If the last one is true, then, you should consult with an attorney to consider submitting a waiver . No, I disagree that they will reject anyone for any reason. On the contrary, I think they are smarter and more professional than we credit them for . Just think of it , they have many Chinese specialists inside plus these officers speak Mandarin extremely well . They must have studied Chinese for many years. Don't worry, you won't get rejected if there is nothing wrong. Just put it concisely and to the point not to leave things to wonder ... I assume she is not a CCP member ?
  3. My wife had similar experience. The only difference is I was glad to be there , otherwise , it would have taken her a long time to go through this process since there are not that many Chinese speaking officers . There probably was one but he was probably busy taking care of the tourists and visiting students . Well, finaly it justifies my spending $2000 to go to GZ .
  4. Jes, it's so damn expensive nowdays. When we took PEK to ORD , man , a lot of visiting high school students from wealthy Chinese parents. Good thing was I got bumped to the business class. I spent $1600 for Lao Po 's ticket one way. I was upset . But, after arrival in ORD , felt I made the right decision. She speaks no English , it'd have been a trouble and taken a long time to await for a Mandarin speaking officer to come out to process her greencard papers. I don't know why we don't consider Mandarin to be the most important foreign language to study in the United States , instead of Spanish . China has the strongest economy today in the world .
  5. The learning from CFL is extremely valuable for me in preparing the case concisely and to the point I m just an ordinary guy who opens my ears and eyes so widely and use mymind to process the info gaathered
  6. This is weird if she's not even working. My wife is not working and was a clerk so she needed not to provide ANY resume. GZ asks for detailed resume if the Chinese works in technical field . What's her background ? anything involved in high security area ? past or present . based on the biography section in DS 230 she submitted .
  7. I want to personally thank members of the CFL family . The journey is essentially done til another 2 years when we have to file CR1 removal . There are many knowledgable members in this forum and their sharing of knowledge and experience are so great . Without this forum , I would not have known how to prepare our application well so we can have smooth sailing. For those who missed out my writing, lao po got easy pink and received her visa 1 day later. Honestly speaking, I would not want to come to GZ for this interview . Hate to travel in July ; high season ( $$$) and very very hot & humid in GZ . My coming here has no bearing none whatsoever to the outcome of the case. It's just a moral support to lao po. She is a red neck ,not the ambitious college educated chinese women who will do anything to get ahead. So, on and on, when I got a little upset of spending over $2000 , I'm reminded of my red neck colleagues in South Carolina who wouldn't give a sh*t of coming to China , how would they feel if they suddenly is asked to do all of these plus get on the plane for 15 hours ride to the new world ? My red neck assitant in SC told me there's no way she would go to China .Even, in the US, people have a hard time understanding her hillbilly tongue , let alone go to China. So, with that in mind, I yielded and came here . For all of these worth, PRC is an incredible place . Still freshly remmeber back in the 80's, those poor visiting scholars at the U. Wisconsin Madison , post cultural revolution scientists, poor , saved a lot of $ , gathered at the biggest TV/Electronic store in town at the end of their term to buy tv's, fridgs, stereos, AC's,etc... to bring back to China. Today, when I lined up in GZ , saw hundreds of 16-18 yrs kids , from well of parents, products of my uncle Deng Xiao Ping 1 child policy , applying for 1 month college tour visas to the USA . Parents is ready to spend at least $5000 for this visit to my good uncle sammy . How many families in my red neck SC town can afford this ??? We painted the pictures ladies who married lao wai are poor girls with kids . not necessarily , many of whom are richer than the lao wai themselves . Well, to my uncle Deng, I have to say , " to be rich is glorious " you 're right uncle .... Today, PRC is still running your policy even you've been gone more than a decade ago.
  8. just 20 rmb for post office to deliver the passport . that's all . no worry.
  9. agree with that. You may try to submit EOR letter during document collection time ( 1st day ). They may or may not want to take it . They pick and choose which documents they want to take on that day.
  10. lao po and I are leaving for the United States soon. Special thanks to CFL and many members' contribution .
  11. and how you communicate ??? if she speaks no English , you better speak Chinese . then, they may ask how you learn it ??? pls bring photos to the interview . officer will ask . also 3 yrs tax return is asked during document collection even though NVC is ok with the most recent year and employment letter.
  12. Guys ; I don't see there is a need to do so . It won't affect the outcome by any mean. Just sit and relax . By the way, my lao po picked up her CR 1 visa yesterday. Actually, it was issued on the same day of the interview , a few hours after passing the interview. Now, she wants to go to the US the same day with me . Ticket is very expensive . But, what can I say ? she is half of me ....
  13. One more thing uncle tsap Chinese people nowdays have money Look at the foreign students Also those immigrating ladies Some of them are wealthy I am going to share this story with my red neck colleagues in south carolina when I return We Americans have better wake up or else we will become kulis in the near future while the chinese will be our
  14. Uncle tsap I didn't go there til about 8 Lao po went there first so I could enjoy my breakfast I was no use anyway at this stage I saw one white guy with a cap and wearing short He looked tense until his honey came out with the pink Don't give up your dream uncle tsap no matter what the outcome is
  15. bring them all . they will only take what they want . by the way, for tax returns, they want ALL three years !!! even though NVC accepted the only most recent year I sent in ( 2010 ). Please bring all three years during the documents intake . They require all three years. They also took my employment letter, and pay stub .
  16. This is the bulldawg reporting from GZ. Very happy day, my laopo easily got her pink . She didn't get called til almost noon time , so as time weant by, I became more relaxed since my assumption is they called first difficult cases and left easy cases til later . Just standard interview questions . My laopo spoke Mandarin through out . The officer asked her a few standard questions such as when we met , how often I came to see her , my job and of course she asked how I learned to speak Mandarin. Asked for pictures and she showed her a few . 2 minutes interview, Passed ! then, by the way, are you CCP? of course, not. There are 4 officers and two supervisors. Since I am a Mandarin speaking guy , I was able to speak to the security guard and learned a few things. It seems to me that they have to be mean & yelling at these Chinese because otherwise they won't be taken seriously .As you all know Chinese culture cuts lines,etc... Otherwise, they are very nice guy. One guy , he was an ex Chinese Navy Seal . He said he wish one day he can come to the United States and join the US military . He's not affraid of killing terrorist or get killed as long as he gets paid well since he knows US military pay much better salary and benefit than Chinese counterpart. He also told me that he respects American Laws. For examples, everyday , there are a lot of intending immigrants under family visa category ( eg. parents, brothers,etc... ) ; many of them are poor & stinky , they don't speak nor read Mandarin , they are from farm lands in Fujian,etc.... , although American officers look down at them , but, they must issue them visas because they meet all the requirements . In United States, personal prejudice can't override the laws. That's why he respects American legal system. WOW, I am proud to hear this as an American. Spouse visa applicants , about 10 -20 perday , sometimes more . K's applicants are about the same. Others are family visas ,eg. parents, bros, sis... Today, I saw a lot of visiting students ; they want to come to the US for 1 months visiting US colleges ( like a group tour ) . One person 30,000 Yuan . With one child policy , Chinese parents really have money now to spoil their kids. I spoke with a few Chinese ladies who applied for CR /IR visas . Some of them have come to GZ a few times for interviews . Finally , one of them , got pink today. Here we go uncle Tsap Tsap . Your turn is coming huh. Good luck to you.
  17. No problem uncle Tsap. Yes, those shots are rough. She may get ill for 1 - 2 days . My laopo arm is swollen and painful. Today, we went to see the doc at the United Hospital to check if it is not going to be a cellulitis . I didn't know that K1 doesn't need the shot . Lao po told me that the Xray is different for K1 vs IR /CR1 ??? All the best to you . Would love to meet other members as well once we are done .
  18. Uncle tsap PM me if you want to get together We can chat and laugh
  19. Uncle tsap Allow a few days for them to condition after the shots Allergic reaction is common United family hospital is very nice one Better than the other one
  20. Uncle tsap Allow a few days for them to condition after the shots Allergic reaction is common United family hospital is very nice one Better than the other one
  21. On the question #1 & #2 : have you been to america , have you been to any other country before ? I notice that these questions are not always asked but sometimes asked. Anyone wants to comment the reasons why ? eg. prior record of deportation from the US ? ( USCIS has this record and they would have caught it during I-130 phase ). how about other countries? doesn't seem that matters since it has nothing to do with US immigration laws ? maybe terrorism ?
  22. I will try to look you up uncle Tsap . This stuff is not supposed to be a rocket scientist or high profile job interview ThE reason it becomes complicated is because China is a very high fraud country that is also the 2nd largest immigrating country to the US Combined those factors with not too friendly diplomatic relationship brings it to be problematic sometimes even to good people Good luck to you and I believe your fsamily application will be approved
  23. My uncle Tsap Tsap ; Deng Xiao Ping said : " Let the past be the past , focus on the future " . TODAY , you have been in the relationship for 4 -5 years, plenty of supporting wife-husband relationship . You even have a step son who can talk red neck tongue probably .... so, why should they deny you ??? Calm down , everything will be ok .
  24. Hey Uncle Tsap ; Why are you up so early ? You didn't get good stuff from your rabbit ??? unless you're a hell of a macho man ?
  25. I think they will ONLY do that when there is a reason for doing so ,eg. suspecting a fraud or intent to use the marriage as a bridge for immigration purpose only . They got a s*it load of cases to be bothered with everyone's ex's . I think it's case by case only.
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