usaRichard Posted January 19, 2009 Report Share Posted January 19, 2009 Thanks, cant wait to test it!Practice, practice, practice... and then pratice some more... Link to comment
Guest Dylan W Posted January 19, 2009 Report Share Posted January 19, 2009 Thanks, cant wait to test it!Practice, practice, practice... and then pratice some more... Practice makes perfect... just in case perfect didn't happen the first time. Link to comment
SheLikesME? Posted January 19, 2009 Report Share Posted January 19, 2009 Thanks, cant wait to test it!Practice, practice, practice... and then pratice some more... Practice makes perfect... just in case perfect didn't happen the first time. It's ALWAYS perfect, but men are commanded to be perfect. So men seek perfection ... continually Link to comment
Guest Dylan W Posted January 19, 2009 Report Share Posted January 19, 2009 It's ALWAYS perfect, but men are commanded to be perfect. So men seek perfection ... continually Hey, I'm wearing white socks with my NYPD blue uniform today... but you can't see them because my boots are high, and my slacks are low cut. Link to comment
SheLikesME? Posted January 19, 2009 Report Share Posted January 19, 2009 It's ALWAYS perfect, but men are commanded to be perfect. So men seek perfection ... continually Hey, I'm wearing white socks with my NYPD blue uniform today... but you can't see them because my boots are high, and my slacks are low cut. B)You should score every time with that getty up. Link to comment
Mick Posted January 21, 2009 Report Share Posted January 21, 2009 We did not plan to have children, but hey, things don't always follow plans. We were together in China for five years, then came to States in 2003. Li got pregnant in August 2003 and Salina was born in May 2004. I was 55 at the time of her birth. I can say that I am so glad things didn't go according to plan. I love this little girl more than life itself. What a blessing she has been. Link to comment
egolessvegan Posted January 21, 2009 Report Share Posted January 21, 2009 With a 20 year old daughter and a 14 year old son, my wife and I are blessed beyond words. Ken (Sun Kang Ning) Link to comment
The Jeff Posted January 21, 2009 Report Share Posted January 21, 2009 I wouldn't object to having another baby when I'm 50. However, my wife will be 45 at that time and may not want to have another one so late. As for paying for college, why should parents have to worry about that? Financing your own college education is one of the best learning experiences that a student can have. Link to comment
Guest Tony n Terrific Posted January 21, 2009 Report Share Posted January 21, 2009 (edited) In my case I would be nearly 60 if we had a newborn. Man, my two kids where a handful and I was so much younger then. My wife and I are happy the way things are. She has a daugher and I have two kids. You know the old saying.... 3 is company....However practice makes perfect. Edited January 21, 2009 by Tony n Terrific (see edit history) Link to comment
NewDay2006 Posted January 22, 2009 Report Share Posted January 22, 2009 I told my wife about this thread last night. I got "cut" last year... she didn't want me to, but my youngest son is 13, her son will be 17 in one month, my oldest is 28... I really don't want to be 50 plus with a baby... my energy level isn't the same. My Granddaughter lives with me now and it is fine, but her mother takes care of her the majority of the time. My wife jokes if we hit the lottery, I can have the reservsal surgery... even if I had the money, I wouldn't want to have a child, it is a big commitment. I wouldn't her to attempt having a baby either since she is 40,29 as she says it Link to comment
SheLikesME? Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 I just turned 50 in Dec, and Jan 7 had the vas reversal done after 20 years since the orginal cut. Total cost for the surgery, $6600 which includes surgeon, anethesiologist, and the hospital...cash, it is not covered by insurance since it is an elective surgery. The problem with reversals, as the doctor explained, is the tube can get clogged over time, and this is most likely to happen after 10 years. He explained that when he opens you up, he hopes to find clear tubes. In my case, the left side was clear, but the right was clogged. Thus, he needed to do some rerouting. All in all, it took about 3-1/2 hours, plus, it took me about 4 hours in recovery (anthesiologist really socked it to me since I told him I once woke up in the middle of a hernia op). Doc said since the left side was clear, he gave me about a 50% chance of success to plant the seed. I had the surgery done at University Hospital in Denver, which coincidentally, the Denver Post just recently said was voted the best hospital for 2008. The doc came highly recommended, and I believe is one of the top surgeons for reversals.Did it hurt? Link to comment
NewDay2006 Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 (edited) I just turned 50 in Dec, and Jan 7 had the vas reversal done after 20 years since the orginal cut. Total cost for the surgery, $6600 which includes surgeon, anethesiologist, and the hospital...cash, it is not covered by insurance since it is an elective surgery. The problem with reversals, as the doctor explained, is the tube can get clogged over time, and this is most likely to happen after 10 years. He explained that when he opens you up, he hopes to find clear tubes. In my case, the left side was clear, but the right was clogged. Thus, he needed to do some rerouting. All in all, it took about 3-1/2 hours, plus, it took me about 4 hours in recovery (anthesiologist really socked it to me since I told him I once woke up in the middle of a hernia op). Doc said since the left side was clear, he gave me about a 50% chance of success to plant the seed. I had the surgery done at University Hospital in Denver, which coincidentally, the Denver Post just recently said was voted the best hospital for 2008. The doc came highly recommended, and I believe is one of the top surgeons for reversals.Did it hurt? I know they put him tosleep, so it probably didn't hurt... When I did it(cut) last year... it was not fun in the least... it felt like someone had my boys in a vice. They Dr. assurred me he wasn't squeezing me ... I thought you better not be buddy ... he also kept telling me to breathe. Edited January 23, 2009 by NewDay2006 (see edit history) Link to comment
Robert S. Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 My wife was 45 when her daughter had her baby, our precious bao-bao, Johnny, the avatar of my life. When the baby was 10 weeks old his mom, my stepdaughter, left and went to work in another city. I moved to the apartment in Fayetteville, leaving my place in Ala. to come back to later. The whole thing of raising that baby was the best thing that ever happened to me. Of course this was my first marriage and I never had any children of my own, so it was a great new experience for me. For my wife she was so blissed out that she was drawing on some kind of deep inner strength, apparently, because otherwise the strain of it seemed like it should have knocked her out. I tried to help as much as I could, but there was not much she asked me to do, and I could not help in the night at all, needing my sleep so I could work. And the baby was not even ever sick - don't know how we could have managed that. If a couple tries to raise a baby at a later age they are going to need some help. Link to comment
griz326 Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 My urologist told me that best results for a guy after being cut involved direct sperm retrieval and AI. Good luck, Ken, I hope the fix took. Link to comment
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