PJ Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 All, Many of you know what I have been through to help my fiancee come here. Well, today I found out she has a husband back home that she neglected to tell me about. Either he or she must have accdentally sent this email to me, or perhaps they were making fun of me because I do not read Chinese. Well, I figured out what it said. Here, please take a look all Chinese readers. For the English readers, basically it is a letter between my ex-fiancee (she is going to be flying one way to China in 2 hours) and her husband that she met 2 months ago or so. Please believe me, I have never ever been so hurt in my life. If you can, please write to her or to him in English or Chinese, and ask why they would ever do something like that to another human being. Her email is: hillringzhu@yahoo.com.cn, and his is mozhenlun@yahoo.com.cn. Right-click on IE and choose ENCODING->Chinese Simplified if you cannot read it. P.J. "zhenlun mo" <mozhenlun@yahoo.com.cn> ºÃÀÏÆÅ£¬ ÎҺ÷µºÃ¶àÀ²£¬²»¹ýÖÙ³ÉÈÕåí¶Ç£¬ÊÕµ½ÄãemailºÃ¿ªÐÄ°¡¸Ð¾õºÜÎÂů¡£ÒѾºÃËÆÎÞ·¢ÉÕÀ²¡£ºÜÏëÄãÄÜÏ°¹ßÄDZߵÄÉú»î£¬ÖªµÀÄãÿÌ춼ÊÇ°ëÒ¹ÐÑÎÒºÜÐÄÍ´¡£ÎÒ»áÕÕ¹Ë×Ô¼ºµÄ£¬ÄãÒ²Òª°¡£¬Ï£Íû·Ö¿ªµÄʱºò´ó¼Ò¶¼ÄÜŬÁ¦£¬ÄÇôÖؾ۵Äʱºò¾Í»áºÜÐÒ¸£¡£ ¾ÍÊÇÕâ¸öÐÅÄî¸øÎÒËùÓеĶ¯Á¦µÄ£¬ÄãÕæÊÇÎÒµÄÈ«²¿£¬Äܸоõµ½Â𣿠ÎÒ°ÑÎÒÃÇÈ¥ÉÕ¿¾µÄÕÕƬ·¢ÔÚÏÂÒ»·âemailÀïÃ棬Äã²é¸½¼þ¾Í¿ÉÒÔ¿´µ½ÁË¡£ °®ÄãµÄ´óè ÏþÓ¾ Öì <hillringzhu@yahoo.com.cn> wrote: ÎÒÇ×°®µÄÀϹ«£º ÄãÒÀ¼Òϵ¶È×öʲôѽ£¿ÎÒÇÙÍíѵµ½½ñÔç3µã°ë¾ÍÆð×óÉíÀ²£¬ÄãÒÀ¼ÒÓÐÎÞ¼ûºÃµãѽ£¿ÖÙÓÐÎÞ·¢ÉÕ£¿¼ÇסÒû¶àµãË®ºÍ³Ôҩѽ£¬¹ãÖݲ¡¾ú¶à£¬ÎÒÕæϵºÃµ£ÐÄÄãѽ£¬ Äã¿ìµãºÃ·µÀ² Ring =======================================English translation: My dear wife:i get much better now, but i still need to go tobathroom many times a day. i receive your e-mail andfeel so warm. i have no more fever. i hope you can getused to the climate there. when i know you alwaysawake in the midnight, i feel so pain in my heart. iwill take care myself, but you too. we work hard whilewe are in different location, we will have happinesswhen we are together. because of this, i have energyto do everything. you are all of mine, can you feelthat. i will send you the photo (going to BBQ) in nexte-mail. you will see it when you check the e-mailattachment. yours big cat. my dear husband:what are you doing now? i awoke at 3:00 am thismorning. Do you feel better? Do you still have fever.you must remember to drink more water and takemedicine. there is so much virus in GuangZhou. i amworry about you. i hope you get well soon.yours Ring. Link to comment
Jatuke Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 Whoa...I'm speechless, my sympathies and condolences are with you... Link to comment
Myles Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 Aloha from Hawaii,That is a very deep hurt. I pray that you will be able to rebound soonand have better luck with the next one. Myles aka Annakuen'GG Link to comment
PJ Posted February 21, 2003 Author Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 Could one of the JMs copy my original two posts to http://www.001.com.cn/forum/usa/index.html?id=1? If you need the Chinese pure I can PM it to you, just let me know. I do wish for everyone to know ... even though it hurts me to talk about it, I hope and pray I can help someone else from suffering as I did. P.J. Link to comment
Mick Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 I am so sorry PJ, and I know words cannot express what you must be feeling right now. You, of all people, should not have to suffer this indignity and pain, especially after you have done so much to help all of us by founding and continuing this board. Like others, I am speechless. My heart and my prayers go out to you. I am truly saddened and more than a little outraged by this. And yes, thanks for posting her name on the board. No one should suffer this....ever. Link to comment
SBS Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 I have read some post on 001 that some girls in china are going out with not only one Amercian and they even have ex-husband at home. i really can't believe they are doing these to people who is so honest and wants a true love. really damit it! Please stay strong, phatkat! i still believe there is really the one who belong to you in your life. we just gonna really find him/her. it is good you finally know this person is before it is too late. Please remember no matter what happen. Candle is place which is filled of love ! Link to comment
yiyi Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 PJ,I am really sorry to hear that.U have done so much for us but now ........Trust me ,one day u will find ur true love.I will pray for u,my fiance too.And all of us here will do that too,at least I think so.Those who cheat others will get what they deserve......If u need help,u can write to me ,my email address is christy@cn.lcpc.bizI would like to help u .......... Link to comment
La_Diva Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 Could one of the JMs copy my original two posts to http://www.001.com.cn/forum/usa/index.html?id=1? If you need the Chinese pure I can PM it to you, just let me know. I do wish for everyone to know ... even though it hurts me to talk about it, I hope and pray I can help someone else from suffering as I did. P.J.PJ! I am shocked reading this. Don't know what to say really... As per your request, i will paste the chinese emails to 001, if nobody has done so.. Thanks for allowing us to share this with you..I am sure nobody will be taken advantage later by the same person.. Best regards, La_Diva Link to comment
SBS Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 I wanted to read these letters in chinese and see if i can help. but they are not chinese on my screen. does anyone has the same problem read it? Link to comment
PJ Posted February 21, 2003 Author Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 All, Normally you know I have done my best to stay positive, but at this point, there is no light at the end of tunnel and eventual end to the sorrow. I have decided that this thread will stay pinned for one week. All moderators, please respect my decision. P.J. Link to comment
SBS Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 god i read it in chinese. really make me sick Link to comment
luckxinxin Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 speechless!!!!!!!! Link to comment
Guest enight Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 sorry to hear it P.J, hope you get well soon. Link to comment
Guest what to believe Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 PJ, i haven't come here untill yesterday . i am shocked to read this but not so shocked.... maybe doesn't make much sense. i have emailed you ,maybe after reading it you could feel better with all my best, i wish you and me and every nice person well Link to comment
tonado Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 PJ, After hearing your story, I couldn't even sleep well. Stay strong. Link to comment
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