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I agree with you . also it sounds like her friend just wanted to come to America for herself.

I wonder if you looked at these websites before you posted them. They really made me sick. I doubt if you can really find a pure girl on this kind of the websites...Most of them are looking for someone to help them get out of China. shame Chinadave, I agree with your opinion wishyou enjoy your teaching and find your other half soon.

Thank you so much Mick! Best wishes to our homeland

Disagree... Though he posted some posts that we didn't like. It is still not a good idea if we play with him...

As Dave wrote in his posts It was Sarah left him and didn't give him another chance to try together. It is not Dave's fault. I believe how Dave's feeling that she wont come back again if she left like this. If she does love him then she should keep staying with him and try to fix the problem. I wish she is not another person who uses someone's love and kindness and move underground in the U.S. again I will say the same to Dave as Mick did. be sure to take care of yourself and love yourself. I do understand how much you got hurt right now. But please stay in light. your experiences will make you be a stronger person... God Bless you

I am so sorry for hearing your story dave. Please dont be too sad. at least you made a lot freinds here on Candle...We will help you through this hard time Try to speak out the problem and talk to you loved one. I believe that is the best way to understand each other and fix the problem...

Well in China. Young ladies do go out with old man around 50 -60. But most of them dont have true love. these guys are rich and have a lot power in the govenment or company. I believe C.C. didn't mean anything bad. But it is true that we have seen too many young people who stay with old man only because they love money....

But does he has a Girlfreind who is half age also?

My Husband sent me this Nokia 3650 ( 1800 MHz Frequency ) But it stil didn't work with the Chinese SIM card. American cell phone company locked it. Only my friend return from Germany can use her cell phone with China SIM.

Shall we sing a Happy Birthday Song to our homeland at that day http://www.yabbas.com/forum/images/smilies/rock_band.gif

http://news.tom.com/2915/2003918-420369.html It will be great if you can read Chinese. Here is an interview of this old man who was caught and worked as a slave in Japan during War II Also there are a lot old photos and articles were put on websites. like this one which is in English. I posted before not sure if you see it or not http://www.china918.net/en/index_en.htm http://www.china918.net/91802/njpic/index.htm

remain silent too...

I didn;t mean about K-1 or K-3 visa at all. she sounds like she is still young if she really wants to get a better life and then she is the one who should try hard. She can either study and take TOFEL and apply a school here. No one should day-dream to get something easily from another person...

I am sorry for asking you. Could you tell me how you defined yourself as a modern Chinese woman?

I agree with you. I am a Chinese woman and I dont want to see any chinese woman suffer here in America. The only right thing is go back to CHina and stay well. If she does want to come to America. She can always do it after she return to China. But if she will be caught by govenemtn after 90days then everyting will be changed