Dianaqiu

Any idea??...

Our interview for my I-485(AOS) is next month. When we first submitted I-485 my husband was looking for a job so on his I-864 form everything was "None". Now we've both been working full time and our income is both equal and above the proverity line. We filed tax for last year too. My husband doesn't have the tax return for the last 3 years, because he's been traveling in the last 4 years and didn't start a serious job untill last July. So,in this case,do we need a co-sponsor?We appreciate any advice. Thanks!~

YOU SHALL HAVE THE BEST LUCK IN THE WORLD!!! AND YOU TWO HAVE A SAFE JOURNY BACK HOME!!!

Well, my husband is 18 years older than me,and a bit bold and grey haired,and also over-weight. And we met on a website. I moved to the States 8 months ago only because i couldn't stand being apart from him and he wasn't so crazy about living in China at all. Before he came back to the U.S, on his visit to my family,i gave my mom 2000yuan under his name only because he's been spending money that he brought to China during the 3 months visit with me and his budget became really tight. I spent all the money i saved from my job on the trip to my interview in Guangzhou as well as on half of the flight tix. I've been living with him and other 2 room-mates since i arrived--2 other guys that he's been living with in the past 4 years since he rented his own house out when he divorced his 2 ex.wife. I started working full-time 4 months ago shortly after my husband found a job. We've become closer and closer and our love grows stronger as everyday goes by. Right now my AOS is still pending but neither of us cares. When we go to bed together every night, the moment is true and treasure. I just have to say, sometimes shit happens but you should never doubt that true love exists among all humanbings-- when everything's right, there comes true love and there's nothing to do with how old you are or where you're from or if you both like rock&roll:-) Hope you find your own peace of mind and good luck to you and your wife! Happy new year to all CFL and 001 members!!!

They update the processing dates once a month.Untill 3 days ago it was still showing "Oct. 15, 2003" so it looked like it was taking over 13 months. But the update on Dec. 17 is showing "March.15,2004" now. This looks much better even though they're still 9 months behind... If there's no delay hopefully i can hear something from them next March. Crossing my fingers...

Well, it's been 5 months since i submitted my AOS(came in as K1). Nothing has happened since i got my finger-printed 4 months ago. The online status has been the same--we'll send you a letter when there's a decision...Balahbalahhhhh... My husband and i are wondering that when should we get concerned and try to get help from our congressman??I bet our case's still sitting waiting for its turn to get read on some dusty desk...:-( Any suggestion??THanks a lot!!

Well, some of my husband's friends were worried about him when they first knew that he's in love with a Chinese girl. Their 1st question was:"Are you sure she's not just marring you for greencard?...What if she left you after the 2 years?..." They're being proctective and my husband understood ofcourse. He always answered:"Well, if she's just with me for the greencard then at least i can still get 2 years' loving life..." Now he always jokes:"You know what?Actually her family is richer than me so..." When my husband told me about these i always said to him:"Well,on the other side,my parents and friends are worried about that you're taking me to the U.S to put me work in some slave shop..." hehe,people are silly sometimes. We know that and we can care less:-)

It's a ONE_SIDE story. Within 2 years of your marriage there's no way for her to get the green card if she devorced you. Don't you know that??So what's indeed that you're asking here??

It's so sad to know that GZ has been doing this kinda rediculous things to people,to the people who're suffering from being apart from their lovers...That's horrible that GZ's gone so far playing their power. I'm so pissed!!! Well, what you can do right now is probably just to play along with them in this waiting game. Everything will be coming into place sooner or later as long as you and your MM are hands in hands together.

Since you're from the same country and you both speak the same language,it doesn't matter if your wife spoke English at all or not. They just want to make sure that you two can communicate,that's all. In GZ at the interview you can choose to speak Chinese the whole time if your spouse is a Chinese... So i suggest that you probably don't need to worry about the language part at all. Take it easy and good luck eh!!

Wow!!I thought myself was quite an sexually open-minded Chinese girl, but this girl's behavior was way beyond being open-minded----that's not how a "traditinal Chinese girl" behaves like. I don't think it's her friend that told her to do so either,just i do know that sex is the last thing we talk about in China between friends, no matter how close you are.Especially when you're a single girl who's never married. Anyways, my husband and i both think that you're probably just one of the 10 guys(if not more) that she's been working on. She wants to make men fall and then she can get money from them and even use them to get her out of China. But if i were her, behaving sexually wouldn't be the first choice. Forgive me for saying this, she's kinda stupid thinking showing her body would turn men on and make them fall in love with her,hehe,that sounds too much like the Thai "monthly wives" that i've known. They work on you to make you feel that they really like you and really care about you and all they want is to empty out your wallet.Well,their tricks are even more professional and smarter as at least they do know how to play men arround... I know i'm getting a little bit too far on this topic, but all i want to say is that if you don't wanna get hurt you'd better back off NOW!!She's far not worth you travelling all the way to China. One more thing, you said "I am one who generally is doubtful if somethng seems to good to be true..." I'm wondering from what point she makes you feel that she's the "something" that's too good to be true??Her knowledge?Her thinking?The common she has with you??Or it's just her being young and having a nice body??Think it over that what do you really think that's good in her, if there're more than 3 things that's good in her besides her body and those are what you really care about in the girl that you're looking for, maybe we're all wrong and then it's worth you booking a tix flying to her. Otherwise??You should know she's just one of those girls, who are too lazy to make their own money but always dream of getting everything they want from the men that they can fool. Good luck!~

What??EAD on the day you file AOS??Wholly smokes!!! Congratulations to Bing!!! WOw...we've visited our local office here in Reno and we were told that we had to mail the package in so we did. Got notice from INS in 10 days and i had to make an appointment for fingerprint at the local office...Have no clue if i can get the EAD at the same day that i go get fingerprint but wow!!How lucky Bing is!!!Why the procedures in different area are so different??!!Hehe,just wish i had Bing's luck...

You know what?Transfer everything that's under your name to someone else that you trust the most, like your family members or your closest friends.

I'm confused. Heard from 001 that in most of the cases you don't need to get the vaccination done untill the interview. That means you don't need to submit the shot report while you apply for the AOS right? I didn't get the shots in China and we're planning to apply for AOS next month as we just got married. I'm wondering how can i find out if the CIS needs my vaccination to be done by the time we submit I-485 or we can take the shot report to the interview instead??Anyone knows??

THanks a lot everyone! I have my SSN right now but just want to go to work as soon as possible but it seems that i'll have to wait to file everything together for the best...