sorry to hear this don't give up lings parents just passed they are about the same as your in laws as far as " parents are in their 70's have bank funds , own a house and have 3 children living in China" their VO was a older man he asked about my last name ma ma said I don't know we just call him michael the VO laughed he also asked for pictures of my wife when she was a small girl ba ba said that they were poor then and could not afford a camera back then we hope it works out for them