Well Said If you are a old fat ,ugly ,poorly educated American Man and a Gorgeous ,beautful ,well educated and intelligent chinese woman wants to marry you LOOK OUT cause it ain't love she's after For Me ,one of my experiences on Line was I was contacted by 3 women (NOT at the Same time ) who are very beautiful and in their 20's ( my best friend has a Chinese wife - who has a hobby of match making ) One Girl asked me to come over to China to Marry her after I had been talking to her on line for about a month . Now come on I am pretty much an Average guy who is healthy , has all his hair , somewhat intelligent ,has property a good job etc , etc and could eazily find an American Born Wife But regardless fo being flattered - it is pretty clear what that girl's agenda was and it sure was not Love I found my Own Girl , who is well educated ,has a great job , owns a house and who I am convinced really does Love me she has passed several tests including having someone else contact her who was younger and better looking ( He is a friend who did not believe me when I said that She was so special ) - He is Now dating Chinese woman who are already here in the USA -likes theirr values and culture 166077[/snapback] You put her through a test? Seems like you still have doubt then.