I want to ask everyone (and maybe this would be better in the polls section) do your wives do this? Stomping out of the house in the middle of an argument, such that you have to follow her out to the sidewalk and try to get her to come back in? Not me. Even if I wanted to show how seriously I was angry, I dare not to. I guess I wasn't angry enough to loose my sense. My ex-wife would tell me "I'm leaving you" everytime our discussions reached a point of disagreement. 3 days later it was kiss and make-up, with nothing ever resolved. Finally, I told her, "If you're not out by Feb 2, I will be". Games like that are not worth playing if they interfere with communication.