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Thank you very much for your guys help!

Couldn't agree more~~

Wow, It is wonderful~~Can I buy one? Can I? Can I? ^0^

I think Money is not a big issue for Chinese women. As I said, women always look older than men if they are in the same age. So we Chinese women are worried about that our husband would abandon us when we grow old, and we don't look young any more... So it's our wish that an older man would secure a warm, long-lasting love and we grow old together watching our babies grow up...

It's kinda true, I think. Personally, I like older man (and ya, mature man) which gives me a feeling of security. Women always look older than men if they are in the same age, I guess it is one of the reasons why. but I heard that Chinese girls look young in their appearance. My husband and I were kicked out of a bar because I don't look over 21~~ If your gal doesnt mind, then nothing could be a barrier. ^0^

I had never asked Peter for money when I was in China, (of course, I do now when I have to go to SAFEWAY to buy food etc.^0^)I had a job, although I didn't make big money, it was enough to pay for my bills and I could send some money to my parents every few months. There is no reason asking for money unless your SO is really in difficulty like no job, being sick and no money to pay for doctors OR she just loves YOUR MONEY~! What if you tell her that you just lost your job and out of money, what do you think she would react..?! I personaly dislike 001, most of the women are hypocritical, nobody helps when somebody asks for help,(it's not like CFL, people here are always ready to help.) and they attack each other!God~!

That's ridiculous! It does sound like she and her family made a financial investment in you!I feel ashame of them~! anyway, It is lucky to find out sooner rather than later! You don't have to return the money to her if you don't want to, it was HER willingness to pay for your visits, so you DIDN'T OWN her at all! Besides, if you have started the visa process, you must have spent some money for it, so why you have to return the money to her? I wish you good luck! ..

Right. on the contrary, if you love someone, you would love her everything, that is so called "love me, love my dog". And I love Peter, so I love his cat too..^0^ In my opinion, it is not a culture difference. it happens in the US also. Peter and his dad barely keep in touch since his dad remarried. His dad doesnt seem to care for Peter for years (oh my poor Peter..)and he has 2 more sons in his new marriage~!!

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I think and hope language is not a problem. I happened to hear a VO asked a gal via a translator how did they two communicate since the gal doesnt know English on my interview day. the VO will definitely ask this question if your SO knows a little English. Not sure if the gal passed or not, but I am sure you will pass when you have enough evidence for the relationship.