What does your Chinese wife expect from you?

[Juette]

I think she means underwear.

[PhoenixRising]

Please do not forget Whirlpool.

[izus]

sex sex sex sex

 

and then still more......

 

 

[yuan fen]

 

 

 

[Joanne]

What I expect from a man?

Emotionally stable. No alcoholic, no drugs. Boy, don't lose your salary in Lost Wages!

Decent education. Decent house.

Don't expect me to be an American woman though I talk like one of them. I'm Chinese in the bone. I'll wash your panties everyday unless you don't wear any

 

 

I would have asked all that if I were still dating now.

 

I think I would like to be close to my daughter, to be able to help my aging parents, and to be independent, and of course being loved, which is most important.

[SirLancelot]

I think I would like to be close to my daughter, to be able to help my aging parents, and to be independent, and of course being loved, which is most important.

 

Everything is ok, except the independent part. That goes counter to being married. Stay single if you want to be independent. No independence in marriage!

[Joanne]

I think I would like to be close to my daughter, to be able to help my aging parents, and to be independent, and of course being loved, which is most important.

 

Everything is ok, except the independent part. That goes counter to being married. Stay single if you want to be independent. No independence in marriage!

 

Our definition of independence might be slightly different.

[SmilingAsia]

I think she means underwear.

Oh, you understand my Chinglish .

[warpedbored]

Eunice I look forward to every post you make. You always put a smile on my face.

[PhoenixRising]

sex sex sex sex

 

and then still more......

 

 

I hope my new wife and I make love, more love and grow in love forever.

[SmilingAsia]

Eunice I look forward to every post you make. You always put a smile on my face.

Hey, buddy, I'll share his dream with you guys:

 

"Hey- I was dreaming last night that we worked together and that you were wearing a very very short skirt and you kept dropping things so you could bend over and pick them up in front of me. You were smiling while you were doing it"

The above is what he expects from me .

Edited July 20, 2007 by SmilingAsia (see edit history)

[PhoenixRising]

Eunice I look forward to every post you make. You always put a smile on my face.

Hey, buddy, I'll share his dream with you guys:

 

"Hey- I was dreaming last night that we worked together and that you were wearing a very very short skirt and you kept dropping things so you could bend over and pick them up in front of me. You were smiling while you were doing it"

The above is what he expects from me :

 

What if you dream that your wife only wears slacks?

[Kevin329]

My fiancee and I are both very kind and caring people. She is in the medical field and is a care giver. An old saying is " meet nice people; not people who have to be trained to be nice".

Her family has been very nice to me and they have given their blessing to us. She has a daughter that will turn 20 this month. Her daughter wishes to remain in China and finish her education. She may wish to come to the USA or stay in China and make her life there. As any good Mother she would like her daughter here in the USA and close by her. I explained to her about the long wait period her daughter may have to face once she turns 21 if she decides to come to the US. She says she understands this. I know that blood is thicker then marriages also.

My children have long been on their own and out of the house. I have heard that the Chinese Families do not encourage this sort of independence until the child marries. I have also been told that when you marry a Chinese woman you also marry her family. My belief is you marry your wife and you have a good relationship with your wifes family and your marriage must always come first.

My future wife does not appear to be high maintenace type. She earns a fair living in China and wishes to work here in the USA. She has a good education holding a Bachelor degree also. I know she wishes to send money back to China occasionally to help her family out. One of my friends who is married to a lady from China told me that his wife does this occasionally also. It seems like the macic number is $300. Another man I know who was married to a woman from the Phillipines had huge problems with his wife when she started to work she wished and did send all of the money she earned back to her family there. They wound up getting a divorce over this practice.

I know any realtionship is a gamble by both sides. I just wish to make the transition easier for us.

 

 

I am chinese woman with american husband. I expect my husband being very sweet, very loving, very spoiling me, but also can ean a lot money, save a lot money, and spend a lot on ME!!! oh, forget mention listening to me.

 

Do I ask too much?????

 

I hope thats a 2 way street.

[PhoenixRising]

My fiancee and I are both very kind and caring people. She is in the medical field and is a care giver. An old saying is " meet nice people; not people who have to be trained to be nice".

Her family has been very nice to me and they have given their blessing to us. She has a daughter that will turn 20 this month. Her daughter wishes to remain in China and finish her education. She may wish to come to the USA or stay in China and make her life there. As any good Mother she would like her daughter here in the USA and close by her. I explained to her about the long wait period her daughter may have to face once she turns 21 if she decides to come to the US. She says she understands this. I know that blood is thicker then marriages also.

My children have long been on their own and out of the house. I have heard that the Chinese Families do not encourage this sort of independence until the child marries. I have also been told that when you marry a Chinese woman you also marry her family. My belief is you marry your wife and you have a good relationship with your wifes family and your marriage must always come first.

My future wife does not appear to be high maintenace type. She earns a fair living in China and wishes to work here in the USA. She has a good education holding a Bachelor degree also. I know she wishes to send money back to China occasionally to help her family out. One of my friends who is married to a lady from China told me that his wife does this occasionally also. It seems like the macic number is $300. Another man I know who was married to a woman from the Phillipines had huge problems with his wife when she started to work she wished and did send all of the money she earned back to her family there. They wound up getting a divorce over this practice.

I know any realtionship is a gamble by both sides. I just wish to make the transition easier for us.

 

 

I am chinese woman with american husband. I expect my husband being very sweet, very loving, very spoiling me, but also can ean a lot money, save a lot money, and spend a lot on ME!!! oh, forget mention listening to me.

 

Do I ask too much?????

 

I hope thats a 2 way street.

You would hope so. If not someone is going to be heading for one bad emotional car wreck in the near future.

[egolessvegan]

My wife expects me to be THE MAN!

 

Ken