If time is an important factor in determining your bon afide relationship, than my god man, you of all people should have had your wifes visa along time ago. They sure have not made your journey easy my friend and just keep dragging you along, Tsap your wait is drawing closer to a end everyday and soon this long fought out battle with these A holes will be over.Hopefully your wife and son will be interveiwed together , are these people really that dumb that they cant put this together, really makes you wonder sometimes what the hell really goes on there