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Well, then by popular demand, here are the words you couldn't understand. She actually had a point to make and a challenge for her classmates. Salutatorian Speech Good afternoon everyone. My name is Angela Solomon, and I am honored to be able to speak to you today. I am sure you can guess from looking at me that this wasn’t always my name. Most of you know that I am from China, but you may not know how I ended up on this stage speaking to you this afternoon. I came to America almost exactly four years ago on May 24, and we immediately started looking for a high school for me. Luckily, we found Lutheran High North. I can still remember the essay I wrote as part of my application to attend Lutheran High North. How could I forget it – my father saved it and shows it to me all the time, including when I was writing this speech. Describe a major event in your life that has made a significant impact on you. Explain why. That was the essay question I was to answer. I can laugh at it now, but I gave the best answer I could at the time since I couldn’t speak English, and here it is exactly as I wrote it: This year I move to America. I think this is the most important things on me. It decide where I study, where I work, where I live. It change my life. Today my English is not perfect, but it is better. Sometimes I even dream in English, except the night before my Spanish test. And because of the teachers and students who welcomed me to Lutheran High North and helped me overcome the language barrier, I stand here today, grateful and humble in your presence. I am an American now and I love living in America, but I want to talk about China for a moment. In China, when I was young, I heard more stories than you can imagine, because stories are told to teach children about life. When I thought about my experience in coming to Lutheran High North, and how much it has changed my life, I thought of the story about a little frog that lived in a well. The frog loved living in the well because he was surrounded by things that made him happy. There was plenty of water to drink and swim in, and there was a rock where he could sit and relax. There were many insects to eat and he loved the warm sunshine that came down into the well for a short time every day. He also loved the stars that he could see in the sky at night, and sometimes he could even see the moon, but only briefly. The frog was convinced that he lived in the best place in the world, but one day a bird stopped to talk with him. The bird told stories about things that the frog couldn’t even imagine existed, and at first the frog didn’t believe the bird. The bird came back every day to tell more stories to the frog, though, and then one day, the bird flew to the bottom of the well and let the frog climb on his back. If you will go with me I will show you what I have been talking about, the bird said. The bird flew out of the well with the frog on his back. As the bird soared high in the air, the frog saw mountains and rivers, forests and lakes, and an ocean and sky so big they seemed to go on forever. When the bird got tired it landed next to a large pond and the frog hopped off and sat on a lily pad in the water. He couldn’t believe how many other frogs were there around him and how much food there was to eat. Now he could see the sunshine all day and the stars and moon all night. But the frogs croaked in a different language and at first the little frog had trouble talking with them. The new frogs were patient with the little frog, though, and they soon spoke the same language and became friends. The world is so much bigger than I ever dreamed, the frog said to the bird a few months later, and I have learned so much just be being with all my new friends. Being here has changed my life, and every day I learn something new. Like the little frog that left the well and discovered there was much more to the world than he ever imagined, I too have found a bigger world by coming to America. Because of you and our teachers, I found a bigger world by attending Lutheran High North. Over the past four years, we have grown together as a class, and you have all been part of opening my mind to things that I had never imagined. Now, as each of us leaves the well, so to speak, we have an opportunity to discover what awaits us in the world. Each of us has a chance to learn and grow and help change the world. Sure we have accomplished a few things in high school, but don’t you agree that we can accomplish so much more in the future? I hope you are as excited as I am about the future, and as grateful as I am for the four years we spent together at Lutheran High North. I hope that you will join me in helping make a better world for other people, just as you helped make a better world for me. Thank you, I will never forget you, and I wish the class of 2012 the best of luck.

Watching it live brought a few to my eyes as well. This video was shot by one of our Chinese friends (the mother of the little girl who appears in the scene at the end of the video). Then she put it together with the music and sent it to us. Other than the music being a little too loud during part of the speech, I thought she did a great job of capturing a very memorable occasion for us.

Thanks guys. I see some the old timers remember. It is hard to describe the feeling of watching Cici standing in front of about 300 people making the first public speech of her life. Pride for sure. A feeling of accomplishment. Absolutely. But mostly the emotions were about the special bond that she and I share, and about what a great daughter she has become. In all the time we have been together Cici has never exhibited the type of bad behavior that could be expected of a teenager. The only time she came close to the line was earlier this week. She is feeling the pressure of being ready for her three-day new student conference next week, packing, cleaning her room, doing the laundry, cleaning the dishes, preparing to leave for China with Ping almost immediately after the new student conference, while trying to be ready to start college as soon as she returns from China. I was pushing her pretty hard about the things she can do to help with her writing while she is on the plane and in China. Suddenly all the competing pressures got to her and she looked at me and asked, "Why are you being so mean to me?" The next morning I saw a card from her on my desk, but I didn't have time to open it before I went to the office. About mid-morning I heard my cell phone beep with a text message but I didn't check it because I was in a client meeting. A short time later I heard another text message beep. When the meeting was over I checked and saw two text messages from Cici. First Message: Papa, Happy Birthday. R u mad at me? Did u read the birthday card? Second Message: PapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapaPapa!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I responded to her messages and we chatted for a bit that way. I told her I hadn't read the card. When I got home she handed me her card. I opened the card and saw that she had drawn a heart at the top, and then she had written a note to me in her computer perfect handwriting. The note fit exactly on the page with no squeezing to make it fit, no line outs or corrections, and no mistakes. Papa Happy birthday to you! I want to apologize about what I did last night. I was so bad and disrespectful to you, but you know sometimes I can't control myself. I felt so bad about what I did the night before your birthday, and I really don't ever want to fight with you. I don't want you to be unhappy on your birthday. So plz forgive me and let's celebrate your birthday together. I love you! The best Papa in the world! Cici So without intending to she put me in my place by writing the perfect little note. It left me thinking that she has already achieved a skill level in writing that is better than most people will ever have, and so what if it still takes her a little longer than I think it should to write a ten page term paper.

And time moves on ... For those of you who followed our story in the thread that went on forever four years ago, there is a sequel to the story in the video at the following link. If you didn't follow our story four years ago, but you have a child who came to America from China, you might also find the story in the video to be interesting. This is my daughter's salutatorian speech at her high school graduation. It is a long climb from the bottom to the top, but it can be done. http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/hIdl2GSSaj8/

Randy, sorry but the Child Citizenship Act of 2000, and the OP's question, have nothing to do with the provisions of the law that you and others have focused on in this link. The answer to the OP's question is very simple and very straightforward. Here is a link to a fact sheet about the CCA 2000. It was written by the USCIS to answer the OP's question. I hope he reads it and acts accordingly. http://www.uscis.gov/files/pressrelease/CCA_102504.pdf

The issue isn't naturalization; it is citizenship by operation of law under the Child Citizenship Act of 2000. My comments are in CAPS. What Are the Requirements of the Child Citizenship Act of 2000? The child must meet the following requirements: Have at least one American citizen parent by birth or naturalization; THIS MEANS THAT YOU MUST BE A U.S. CITIZEN Be under 18 years of age; THIS REFERS TO YOUR STEPSON Live in the legal and physical custody of the American citizen parent; THIS APPEARS TO BE TRUE and Be admitted as an immigrant for lawful permanent residence. HE IS APPARENTLY HERE WITH A GREEN CARD In addition, if the child is adopted, the adoption must be full and final. THIS IS WHAT YOU MUST DO BEFORE HE TURNS 18 IN ORDER TO MAKE IT HAPPEN. THEN FILE THE N-600, NOT THE N-400 (WHICH IS FOR NATURALIZATION) I usually refrain from making comments that could be interpreted as being legal advice, but I can't sit idly by knowing that a kid is about to miss a golden opportunity, so just take this as advice from a father whose adopted daughter became a U.S. Citizen in this manner.

Sorry to hear about the delay, Craig. Hang in there, you can overcome this problem. Enjoy your time together.

I don't know, Mike, but since it says to attach the power of attorney or a copy of it, they are not insisting on an original signature. From a personal point of view I see no difference between attaching a copy of a fax or pdf signed document, and attaching a copy of the original document itself. A CPA or someone who practices tax law would know better than me, though. I am just reading and taking the IRS Publication at face value.

Amanda and Richard, this is from Publication 17 on the IRS website: Signing a joint return. For a return to be considered a joint return, both husband and wife generally must sign the return. Spouse away from home. If your spouse is away from home, you should prepare the return, sign it, and send it to your spouse to sign so that it can be filed on time. Other reasons spouse cannot sign. If your spouse cannot sign the joint return for any other reason, you can sign for your spouse only if you are given a valid power of attorney (a legal document giving you permission to act for your spouse). Attach the power of attorney (or a copy of it) to your tax return. You can use Form 2848, Power of Attorney and Declaration of Representative. Nonresident alien or dual-status alien. A joint return generally cannot be filed if either spouse is a nonresident alien at any time during the tax year. However, if one spouse was a nonresident alien or dual-status alien who was married to a U.S. citizen or resident alien at the end of the year, the spouses can choose to file a joint return. If you do file a joint return, you and your spouse are both treated as U.S. residents for the entire tax year. For information on this choice, see chapter 1 of Publication 519.

Amanda, I infer from your forum name that you and Ping were born in the same year. I infer from Jin's post that "us" means Chinese women. Now I may be wrong on both counts, but I dare anyone to say yes to Jin's question if I am correct. But one day at a time, there are two Chinese ladies who I understand better and better. It will take a lifetime to understand them more. They have promised me that they will give me that long. But I think that Jin's question might be more specific. She may simply be asking each of us guys if we understand our respective fiancee or wife, and how they will change our respective lives. I have come to know the answer to the second half of that question quite well. It is an amazing transformation that Ping has brought to my life. I am quite happy with those changes.

We wish we were there, Bob. Have a great time.

Griz, we were 3 months to EAD and about 5.5 months to Green Card. For a set of statistics that would be more meaningful, you can check on VJ. Look at the forum for AOS, and within that forum, look at July AOS filers. That is the month that we filed. Someone created a spread sheet that tracked everything for all July AOS filers who shared their information. You can see at a glance how long it was taking on average, as well as the outliers for EAD, AP, Interview, and Green Card.

Congratulations Joe, I know the feeling. Let me know if you need the name of the head doctor at the hospital. Ping knows him and we were able to get in and out very quickly.

Joe, best of luck. I am sure she will do fine. Then come back and talk to us. I will offer a comment that may be controversial, but I have bit my tongue through many injustices. Your sage comments and your ability to express yourself in a clear and meaningful way are dearly missed by those who are not jealous of your intelligence. Post on Joe. We need you.

Jon, one safe assumption about GUZ is that they will close for every possible holiday, U.S. and China. They will also close whenever they feel like it, whether or not it is posted on their website. The longer of the two dates that you saw is more likely to be true. We went through this last year. They were closed even after the Spring Festival holiday period, and never posted that closure on their website. When we went to the consulate for ACH, there was a small sign up on the fourth floor that announced their closure. Good luck with it.

Did you scare David off with the threat of a party, Randy, or has anyone heard anything from him about their interview?

Jin, I will tell you a closely guarded secret. In 1775, a group of Patriots in a young America incited support to break away from its mother country. The cover story that was developed and sold to the media and historians was that they were upset about taxation with no representation. But the truth is that the men in America simply wanted the option to be messy in the kitchen when they cooked. They fought for that right, and cling to it still today. Now rumor has it that the desire to have this "messy in the kitchen option" extends to Western men from around the world. But your Rob will know more about that than I know.

You can probably use any term you wish if it is preceded by ni hen mei li (if I spelled that correctly, it means "you are very beautiful."). B)

Anyone and everyone would be smart to be careful and prepared when entering the U.S. for the first time on any kind of visa. Sure the odds of a real problem are small, but we all know how things can go horribly wrong in this process. A visa does not guarantee admission to the U.S. DHS has the discretion to deny entry to anyone. Therefore, questions that are asked, however bothersome, should be taken seriously. An attitude that "you have no right to treat me like this, or ask questions of me, because I have a visa" could lead to isolation for deeper questioning or delaying tactics or harassment in another room. It could also lead to a denial of entry. This is just practical advice, not legal advice. You made it this far. Just smile and be polite and everything will be fine. You don't want someone on a power trip to ruin everything.

No heat in the Golden Bridge Hotel in Guangzhou either, but that is par for the course in Guangzhou. We were also there in February and early March this year in that record cold winter. It is a beautiful hotel, however, and I would stay there again even without heat. Ping and I just snuggled up under the covers and we were fine. If you think the hotel is cold with no heat, try some of the open air restaurants.

For anyone who really wants to know, 11 USC 1182 lists the legal grounds for inadmissibility to the United States. This statute is long and convoluted, but not having a bona fide relationship is not one of the grounds for inadmissibility. The grounds of inadmissibility that are listed in the statute are the only reasons that can be used to deny a visa to a person. What that tells us is that "not a bona fide relationship" is a euphemism that means the Consulate has concluded, rightly or wrongly, that one of the legal grounds for inadmissibility is present, and it is not obligated to state which reason caused the denial of the visa. If you read the statute, you will see that the Consulate does not need to have absolute proof, such as an admission or a criminal conviction, in order to invoke some of the grounds for exclusion. In some cases all it needs is a reasonable belief that a ground for exclusion is present. It would also be fair to conclude that denial decisions have been overcome when the "reasonable belief" upon which the decision for denial was based was successfully rebutted. These are just my comments, and not legal advice.

I may be the only person here who feels the way I do about what you described. I had a very strong reaction to it. Others are entitled to their opinion. Here is mine. And I base it on taking your facts at face value. No matter who is right or wrong, and no matter who is the source of the hard relationship between your husband and your son, it is my opinion that your husband's conduct is inexcusable. Period. A parent is supposed to be an adult in a family, and set an example for the children. Guide them, counsel them, help them learn. When the parent treats a child like a dog, it is wrong. Verbal abuse of a child or a spouse is also wrong. I am aware that there are men who are as you describe your husband. Their attitude is that what they say is the law, and they can say or do what they please. It is their way or the highway for anyone else who lives in their house. What you have described is an unfortunate fact of life. I may be fooling myself, but I like to think that very few if any intelligent men would have such an attitude. And I feel strongly that no caring man would have such an attitude. I for one am very sorry to hear about your situation. I hope that things work out for the best for you and your family.

Richard, you are an educated man, and you know well the irreplaceable value of a good education. I agree with you completely on that point. You want what is best for your son, and that is commendable, but all any of us can do in the end is provide the opportunity and the best advice we have to offer. Especially at the age of 20, with military service behind him, your son should be capable of evaluating his choices in life. Whether he chooses to do that or not is another issue entirely. It sounds like you have done all that you can reasonably do to help him. In the end, I suspect he will admire your success in life, but listen to his mother and perhaps others in his family about what he should do. Gamers are a breed unto themselves. For the past three years I have helped the local community college by teaching the law portion of the course curriculum in digital gaming and simulation classes. I have found these students as a whole to be razor sharp in things that I don't understand, or for that matter, care anything about (gaming), while lacking in and not caring about things that are often important to mainstream success in life. A few of them will make it in gaming, and perhaps your son will be one of the lucky few. But as I tell the students in my classes, they better have a back up plan for their lives. Good luck with it. I hope your son makes a smart decision.

Congratulations, Charles. It was a hard way to do it, but after all your waiting and suffering, you essentially leap-frogged (is that a word?) many couples and got the 10 year green card.

While it will probably be a whole lot easier to get the SSN before applying, a SSN is not required under Ohio law. It is only required if a SSN has ever been issued. But you must still provide a Primary Document that contains the full name and date of birth, and there is a list of what documents are acceptable for this purpose. One acceptable Primary Document that you might have would be a USCIS document that is original and valid (i.e. the I-94 contains the full name and date of birth), or since she is from another country, her passport accompanied by appropriate USCIS documents (presumably the I-94 or the Visa would suffice for this purpose) will satisfy the statute. And you must also provide a Secondary Document, and again a list of acceptable documents is provided. The Secondary Document must just establish that she is the person who signed the application. A foreign birth certificate accompanied by a translation by an approved translator if the birth certificate is not in English will suffice, as would a copy of your marriage license). But don't take my word for it, as I didn't spend much time reviewing the statute. Here are the rules. * Ohio Administrative Code * » 4501:1 Bureau of Motor Vehicles * » Chapter 4501:1-1 Driver Licenses 4501:1-1-21 Acceptable identification to be submitted along with an application for a driver's license, commercial driver's license, and identification card. (A) The person who signs the application for a driver¡¯s license, commercial driver¡¯s license, identification card, or a duplicate of any of the foregoing, shall present along with the application two identification documents establishing that he is the individual whose signature appears on the application. The types of documents that are suitable for this purpose shall establish the date of birth and social security number, if ever assigned to the person. A cosigner for minor applicant must present the same two documents. The primary document shall contain the full name and date of birth and shall be verifiable. The social security number shall be on either the primary document or the secondary document. The name on the documents shall match the person¡¯s current name unless a change of name is established by court order, marriage certificate, or marriage license. The court order may be a primary or secondary document. Only original documents or a copy bearing an original certification by the issuing authority shall be acceptable. Uncertified copies or copies of certified copies shall not be acceptable. Failure to provide two acceptable documents to prove both the date of birth and social security number, if ever assigned, shall result in the denial of the application. ( The following are acceptable primary documents: driver¡¯s license from any state, with photograph, current or expired not more than six months; birth certificate, either an original or certified copy, with a seal and issued by an appropriate governmental agency; state issued identification card from any state, with photograph, current or expired not more than six months; United States citizen and immigration services (USCIS) documents which are original and valid, or like documents issued by the successor agency to the USCIS; a certified copy of a court order containing the full name and date of birth; a military identification with photograph; a valid passport, either United States or Canadian, with photograph, or if from another country, a passport accompanied by appropriate USCIS documents; state issued learner¡¯s permit from any state, with photograph, current or expired not more than six months. The following are all acceptable secondary documents: official social security card or number identification (numident) printout but not a metal card; bureau of Indian affairs card or Indian treaty card but not a tribal identification card; certified copy of a court order with or without date of birth; credit card; employer identification card with photograph; foreign birth certificate accompanied by a translation by an approved translator if the birth certificate is not in English; health insurance card; internal revenue service or state tax form issued by the appropriate governmental agency within the past three years, but no W-2 forms; marriage certificate or license; medical records from a doctor or hospital; military dependent identification with photograph; military discharge separation papers; gun permit with photograph; pilot¡¯s license; a certified copy of a school record or transcript; a student identification card, with photograph, issued by a school or university; vehicle title but no vehicle registrations; voter registration card but no Ohio voter registration cards; and welfare card. If the person who signs the application does not provide identification as required by this rule, the application shall not be accepted by the registrar of motor vehicles or any deputy registrar. Additional documentation may be required if the above documentation provided is questionable. © Notwithstanding any other provisions of this rule, a current, valid offender identification card issued by the Ohio department of rehabilitation and correction containing the person¡¯s photograph, name, date of birth, and social security number shall constitute acceptable evidence of the person¡¯s identity for the issuance of an Ohio temporary permit, driver¡¯s license, commercial driver¡¯s license, or Ohio identification card. If any of the required information is missing from the offender identification card, the application shall be denied. (D) Notwithstanding any other provisions of this rule, a current, valid DYS identification card issued by the Ohio department of youth services containing the person¡¯s photograph, name, date of birth, and social security number shall constitute acceptable evidence of the person¡¯s identity for the issuance of an Ohio temporary permit, driver¡¯s license, commercial driver¡¯s license, or Ohio identification card. If any of the required information is missing from the DYS identification card, the application shall be denied. (E) Notwithstanding any other provisions of this rule, an Ohio driver¡¯s license, Ohio commercial driver¡¯s license (CDL), or Ohio identification card, which is current or has been expired for less than six months and for which the person¡¯s social security number has been verified in the records of the bureau of motor vehicles shall constitute acceptable evidence of the person¡¯s identity for all transactions conducted by the registrar or any deputy registrar. If the social security number has not been verified in the records of the bureau of motor vehicles, then the person shall be required to present a second acceptable document verifying the person¡¯s social security number. Effective: 02/01/2008