I am a Chinese who married with my American husband, we have a happier time together,though i feel some sort pressure, when i was in china, i was an accountant, MBA. but i can not control English yet ,i can not find a right job here, i have to study hard and improve my English too , i sit for CPA examination now, i have passed one section........., my pressures are from others too, my son live with me too, he and my husband always have some troubles, like as my son knock door instead of he opened it by his key,go to bed a little late.........i don't know if it is my husband is too strict in children or my son is too bad.when he yell at my son and always say to send him to china, anyway i feel pretty press , i believe i love my husband and he does too, but realized life always have some pities.