ginseng is always a good gift idea http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=11166&st=0 Google search is your friend http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=site%3Ahttp%3A%2F%2Fcandleforlove.com+gifts+inlaws&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq= when all else fails, ask your fiancée as she knows her family best. Perhaps do your part and have some ideas ready to suggest and see where she directs you from there. Might as well start now, because after you get married, that's just the way it is!