We didn't really debate anything much. I was just surprised that she banned me from reading it. I never say much negative about China. I know there was a time when her family was poor, but they prospered in later years. Heck, that was my life also. As far at the US over China, my wife would have been just fine with me moving to China instead of her moving here. I understand. She kinda banned me to. Dont have a real reason why she did, she just did. I guess its a subject we guys talk about between ourself. With wife we just kinda have to agree. Its ok though, not a subject for argueing. Nothing realy is. Our home is in China also. I'm still trying to understand why we are not there now. Its been 5 years, still have a few things cant seem to get a straight answer on. Shes my life so all I know to do is she will tell me. To do it my way wont work. I'm happy with that.