Gary, I know the feelings that you must be experiencing at this moment. I have been a situation much like your own. I first applied for a Fiancee' visa for my girl, and it was processed through the normal procedures and it was approved from DHS and sent to Guangzhou for an interview. However at the time of the schedule interview my girl was already enrolled in training for 6 months, she was not able to make it to the interview and certainly did not have the support information she needed to present to the Visa Officer at the consulate. I had written to the Consulate in Guangzhou to request an extension of her visa due to the poor timing, and a the reply that I got was that the VO was able to extend the validity period of the visa. The following year we got married in Chongqing, and obtained a marriage certificate, two passport sized red books, (marriage certificates) in Chinese. We had the marriage certificate translated in English and nortarized. I then filed a petition I-130, it was processed and approved, sent along to the Guangzhou Consulate, and we waited for approval notice and interview notice to arrive. When we arrived at Guangzhou for my wife's interview. I had already prepared a briefcase full of supporting documentation, I had prepared copies of our chat history, telephone call logs, telephone bills, copies of letters that was sent to/from my wife and myself. We had selected the best pictures of us taken together out of our selection of a few thousand pictures taken since we've first met. The ones that the Visa Officer was most interested in the pictures taken with family and relatives in them. The Visa Officer was a woman she did ask about my wife's previous Fiancee Visa, why we did not complete it, and my wife stated that at the time it was approved for the interview, it was impossible for her to travel to Guangzhou, and perhaps what was more important was that the timing of the interview was when there was the SARS outbreak in Guangzhou. She also asked for copies of my Affidivat of Support for the past three years. She gave those a quick glance over and then said to my wife, "Congratulations you pass your interview." The Visa Officer, never questioned our previous Fiancee Visa, perhaps because there was never any doubt of bona fide relationship. What help was that when I sent the first fiancee visa application form I-129F, was that I wrote a 10 page letter stating how we met, what we did together, how often we talked. A complete timeline history of events and pictures showing the timeline history. If you have some questions please ask.