Well Dan, I don't know you well enough to know why you went through the things you did. The facts specific to your case may be totally different than the issue at hand. Secondly, our child will be part African-American and part Chinese. A unique combo! I would take a second look at a person who was that combo here in the states! Just because it is interesting. So imagine how children in China, having only been exposed to ppl who look like them, would act...