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Thanks Darnell...She cant speak much english best I know. Have to ask wife for more details. Find out more wll contact you. We dont like to get in the middle of this but we both know shes very much alone and needs help. Thank you very much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks Warp..We dont have much information. I think her green card is 2 years, will ask my wife for more details. This family sees her as low life, I guess since she is second. Will ask wife to pass to her about divorce. I do know from the many phone calls she is very lost, she looks to my wife for advice. Realy want to help this woman. She didn't create the hell she found herself in, that much I know.

Might be wrong but in NC wife couldnt take on my last name until she can get her ssn card. Our marrage cert had to be my last name, her last name. Sometimes the state, county, fed, uscis have different rules. Thats what we have run into as far as the name change thing goes.Ask the register of deeds in the county you live in about that if its where you will marry.Kinda confused about that still. Best to contact your local .gov about that The fed part I dont know. We got married here with only her passport and form they had stating she had no ssn, her birth cert was not needed but mine was. Check with your counties register of deeds.

Dont have all the facts. Wife has a friend in Texas. She is the second wife. This family has a resturant in Texas. It seems she was more or less a slave. In the familys home she couldnt even decide what color bed sheets to put, could never even shut the door to her room to use the computor, the family wouldn't allow it. We would call her so called husband a mommies boy. She demanded they get their own place so they got pretty much a hotel room. With the familys blessing as long as it was in her name, not hubbys. I dont know all but long put short she went back to China for a couple weeks and found out from there they didnt want her to come back for any reason. They took it upon themself (hubby to). To be .gov and demand her not to come back. She did come back, all she has is her wal-mart job and a hotel room, and real bad advice how she should go from here. We dont know the full story but her side of it belive is true. We dont know how to give her legal advice. We cant. Anyone know of a good lawyer in Texas wouldnt cost her a arm and a leg?

We did that in DC maybe three months ago. She didnt need anyting but her expired passport. http://www.nyconsulate.prchina.org/eng/ Did ya check here? Found a good hotpot in DC, sorry no help

Depends on the man. I love to run my mouth about my sweet wife out here, got a big one to, many times dont make no sense to no one but me. Day to day no its not that way. Its life and how we both decide we want it to be. Thats what we always talk about in email, on the phone or yahoo. Now its side by side almost two years now. I still find ways to show her how much she means to me, dont matter where it is. Nothing but poems yep sounds like a problem.

No, married filing jointly will always put you in a lower % tax bracket, whether ITIN or SSN. Check their figures. Will do that. Went from owing nothing to maybe a small refund to 3k we owed. Thanks for input will call "got people" in am. I knew something wont right reading the other post.

True...Also if you need free tech advice go to Craigslist. Go to the computor section and ask away. Found answers to most any tech problem free there. Of course many want to fix it for you but many will tell you free. Very good website for this have used it many many times. Dont matter where the cpu is from theres always someone there that knows. When you post ask what if I do this? What if I do that? I found most times will get free advice with an offer to help if you need a pro.

Not sure if this helps but wife mailed around 10 boxes of clothes & shoes. Each were around 40 pounds each. Cost was around 50usd for each box useing China Post. All of them got here no problem right to our door on the East Coast by usps. Dvds and items like that she could not mail. No idea if a shipping company would be cheaper. We live in NC but that was over a year ago.

Just read to filing joint post. You guys didnt get hit with a higher tax brackett? H&R did mine last year when seems since wife had no income and only a ITIN we got hit having to pay. Wondering if they knew what they were doing now. Thinking need to go back and ask what was the $247 paid to them was for.

Its a poot wife does and you say yep you got that right. It's a beer burp you do and wife says man you drink to much. It's 12am beside each other, tv's on but your lost in each other, have no idea whats on. It's 1am in bed you just want to hold each other, talk about everything, laugh about nothing at all. Its how she can read your mind anytime even though you know you had no mind to read. She can see it in your eyes when she tries on a pair of shoes or a dress at Macys. She is watching to see if your proud of her as she is of you. It's 5am and she gets up to fix you food then gets herself dressed wanting to spend the day with you at work. Could go on and on but. Its a poot wife does and you say yep you got that right.

Understand you guys thanks!!!!!!!!! Wifey is working under the table teaching Chinese to a family from Korea right now. Got you on EAD!. Will do. Shes crazy about Macy's shoe department. Thanks much!!!!!

Is there a step by step guide? Been through the faqs. I cant find it.

OK be myself..lol good thing she can't understand english. I've been working on the no bow thing, kind of hard since I still work with Japanese. Scared to Death...yep that's me I didnt know what to do either, caught myself right before the bow, then thought what about a hug?..Nono mamas chinese. Turns out a hang shake was fine. She heads for the kitchen let her have it, in fact the whole house.

Just be yourself, na dont do the bow thing. My wife was same not worried I was scared to death. Found out real fast wife was right.

Warp not sure if this helps but this is what IRS told me last week at H&R block about transcripts He did say all we needed for uscis was a transcript. Certified (below) was all he could find on that. 1.6 IRS Procedures: Copies & Transcripts How do I request a copy of my tax return for last year? If you need an exact copy of a previously filed and processed return and all attachments (including Form W-2 (PDF)), you must complete Form 4506 (PDF), Request for Copy of Tax Return and mail it to the IRS address in the instructions along with a $39 fee for each tax year requested. Copies are generally available for returns filed in the current and past 6 years. In cases where an exact copy of the return is not needed, tax return and transcripts may be ordered. The tax return transcript shows most line items contained on the return as it was originally filed, including any accompanying forms and schedules. In most cases, a tax return transcript will meet the requirements for lending institutions for mortgage verification purposes. The transcript can be ordered by completing a Form 4506-T (PDF) or calling (800) 829-1040 and following the prompts in the recorded message. There is no charge for the transcript and you should receive it in 10 business days from the time we receive your request. Tax return transcripts are generally available for the current and past three years. If you need a statement of your tax account which shows changes that you or the IRS made after the original return was filed, you must request a "Tax Account Transcript". This transcript shows basic data including marital status, type of return filed, adjusted gross income, taxable income, payments and adjustments made on your account. Tax return and account transcripts are generally available for the current and past 3 years. Form 4506-T (PDF) can also be used to get proof from the IRS that you did not file a tax return for a particular tax year. Forms can be downloaded at irs.gov/forms/pubs or ordered by calling (800) 829-3676. Can I get copies of my prior year Forms W-2 from the IRS? The quickest way to obtain a copy of a prior year Form W-2 (PDF) is through your employer. If that is not possible, you can order and pay for copies of your entire return (attachments include Form W-2 (PDF)) from IRS, or order Form W-2 (PDF) information at no charge from the IRS. The IRS can provide Form W-2 (PDF) information for up to 10 years. Information for the current year is generally not available until the year after it is filed with the IRS. For example, Form W-2 (PDF) information for 2005, filed in 2006, will not be available from IRS until 2007. To receive a copy of your return or transcript, complete and mail Form 4506 (PDF), Request for Copy of Tax Return or Form 4506-T (PDF) Request for Transcript of Tax Return. You should allow 60 calendar days for a response. More Frequently Asked Tax QuestionsAccessibility | FirstGov.gov | Freedom of Information Act | Important Links | IRS Privacy Policy | U.S. Treasury Certified Transcripts (CERTS) Privacy Impact Assessment - Certified Transcripts (CERTS) CERTS System Overview The Certified Transcript Program (CERTS) produces a common language transcript that gives the history assessments and payments on taxpayers' accounts. These transcripts are used in civil and criminal court cases. Form 4340, Certificate of Assessments, Payments, and Other Specified Matters, is used by the government in litigation to certify extracts from a taxpayer's account. Form 4340 is a true copy certification when the certification at the end of the form contains an authorized signature. When further certified by a Form 2866, Certificate of Official Record, signed under seal, Form 4340 self-authenticates the entries contained therein when submitted in court by the government.

I guess the answer then is for both of you to only communicate in Japanese? Or, did I misread Erika's post? Might as well be Japanese if a spouse or loved one has to analyze every word she says to you in Chinglish or he says to her in English. Real basic lack of understanding each other at all sounds like. Nothing to do with the subject maybe but basic communication isn't that hard. Analyze every word you got problems.

What if your k3, self employed have only irs transcripts and your wife is the one with the bank account in her chinese name without you on it? Any k3's at aos been able to use her account as income? All my income goes into wifes account. If you were able to use it as proof did it cause problems at aos interview? I wanted my wife to have control over something when she got here almost two years ago now. She cant work legal, cant drive, cant do anything so since she has the smarts in out family I found a bank she could open an account with only a passport. Since then everything, every check has gone into her account. Last week I had H&R block take a second look at 06 taxes and they found a mistake made by the IRS. Put it short they put me on the phone with agent#001254sowhat. After a bit asked him if he knew about uscis regulations, turns out he has two jobs, the irs and uscis. He did say last years transcript is all they want unless theres some kinda flag allready on your file. Or your person at interview don't feel to good that day. As to proof of income from a wife here in the states with a bank account without your name on it of course he would not comment. She has no SSN yet, nothing but a marrage cert and a bank account. Anyone had this problem? Just filling aos for k3 now.

I agree..Every where I've been in China, around our home, at the 7-11, Pak-in-shop, bus stop, just walking down the street meeting kids just out of school, at the malls, even at McDonalds I was amazed how polite and respectfull children and teenagers were. Sure some are cant say theres not. It is different here. Children not much but teenagers you see any where you go here makes you wonder whats thier problem. Many have no morals, no respect for anything it seems. Not even thierself. Understand the (2nd mother) thing to. Its just my HO but many times she walks a fine line. Many times have seen the parent take the side of the child even though they know better. Makes it even harder on her if she is from another country. Seen it to many times to say it's not. Just my HO but agree with you 100%. My wifes role in my teenage sons life has not been (2nd mom). She is mom and he has learned from her, listens to her and takes what she tells him to heart. Shes from China but her Chinglish is better than my English or his. I do not get in the way. She says if you dont say it up front soon it will stick out behind. Agree with you 100%.

Understand, thanks! Do you know if they check your state to see if your up to date? Just got hit with a nice tax bill from the state. I guess its best to pay it, not fight it given we are filling aos. Not sure if they would give a rfe on that. USCIS is FED, so they are only concerned with what was reported to the FED AKA IRS. Got ya.Thanks Much!!!!!!!!!!!!

Understand, thanks! Do you know if they check your state to see if your up to date? Just got hit with a nice tax bill from the state. I guess its best to pay it, not fight it given we are filling aos. Not sure if they would give a rfe on that.

If you provide a photocopy of your tax return(s), you mustinclude a copy of each and every FormW-2 and Form 1099that relates to your return(s). Do not include copies of theseForms if you provide an IRS transcript of your return(s) ratherthan a photocopy. You must provide either an IRS transcript or a photocopyfrom your own records of your Federal individual income taxreturn for the most recent tax year. If you believe additionalreturns may help you to establish your ability to maintainsufficient income, you may submit transcripts or photocopiesof your Federal individual income tax returns for the threemost recent years. Sorry for the paste job. What did you give them if have no 1099 or w2? Transcript from IRS or a copy? Did you get a RFE from a transcript or a copy? What about state taxes? Do they look at that also? I know on 864 it says last year file is ok. Would it be better to send last 3?. Anyone get a RFE because of this? If you did what did you do?

I tried that to even then they would not let me pay for anything. Have to sneak them gifts. All they care about is I love her very much, they know I love them to dont need www.buyawife.com

Matt dont mind, Kitty say go for it. Buy Festis a beer.

We filed our 2nd 130 back in Jan. 09 this year after one deny. One month ago we got a noa saying they sent it to CA from Vermont. Almost one month to the day wife went to check the bill box (mail box) came back with grin from ear to ear, even got a $50 rebate check from a printer we bought. Dont get much better than that. Anyone else had their 130 transfrered to CA?