Lumatt, I heartily agree with Carl, "Warpedbored." A while back, he posted the hyperlink for Aimhigh.com. You can use CL search engine, and find it under "hand translators," I believe. My circumstances are substantially different that yours. Alice speaks very good english, but at times can become "hung up" on complex or compound meaning words. I speak some Mandarian. Unfortunately, there are times when we aren't able to get a full meaning of a word, it's impact, or clearly understand what the other is thinking and/or meaning. I used Carl's hyperlink, and have purchased two translators. Alice has one, I have the other. When we call each other, and we have problems properly expressing what we are thinking, both of us can translate then and there. It cuts out a lot of misunderstandings. I would also suggest if you haven't done it yet, and you're talking with you fiancee in China. Go to www.onesuite.com. Phone costs are substantially the best available, very clear signal, printable records for the VO (to show realtionship). With the translators, if you have a voice function you can play into speaker of phone of the Chinese expression for your finacee. Onesuite.com, and the hand translators was some of the best advice Carl has placed on this board. However, he has a lot more sage advice to offer. Thank you Carl! I should add that aimhigh.com has the most comparable rates compared to other translators. You will get a lot more "bang for your buck." Good Luck