got money back

[Guest jimcope]

thanks again for all you help goes out to every one. she has been calling 6 times aday and emailing very often. i told her i would not talk or email till i got my money back and that if she did not send it. i would do what ever i could to stop her from ever getting in the states. it is not like me to be that hard i do feel bad for her . i just can not understand why she never emaed or talk on the phone

[lele]

thanks again for all you help goes out to every one. she has been calling 6 times aday and emailing very often. i told her i would not talk or email till i got my money back and that if she did not send it. i would do what ever i could to stop her from ever getting in the states. it is not like me to be that hard i do feel bad for her . i just can not understand why she never emaed or talk on the phone

You really got the money back?

 

Wow!

 

Is it *possible* that there was just a very high level of miscommunication and that it is worthwhile taking the risk to see things continue forward, or have you made up your mind.

 

If you have made up your mind, what will you now next do?

 

Good luck, and be happy! Do remember that sometimes people from different backgrounds and experiences can be good people and not understand each other very well, often spinning out of control until people get hurt. Naturally, i am being highly optimistic here, as I have seen the opposite too.

 

Best to you and it was certainly a surprise to hear.

[Jim - Portland, USA]

Holy cow, you got your cash back?!?!

 

I'll admit I was one of the doubters who thought you'd never see a dime of your money back

 

Chinese culture never ceases to amaze and confound me!

 

I'm not gonna touch that can of worms about whether or not there were mixed/lost signals all along. Although maybe she just gave the money back in hopes that you won't cancel her interview later this month?? Whoops, I opened the can!

[lele]

I didn't read that she returned the money. Did I miss something?

It was in the topic header for this thread...at least that was my interpretation of it!

[hongrose1230]

Actually the 1100 USAD is not big money, so what for for asking her sending the money back? if you really love her, you should not ask her send the money back, there is something misssing for your and your GF misunderstanding. what a pity!!

[awch]

Actually the 1100 USAD is not big money, so what for for asking her sending the money back?

its big money to me- that could really go a long way in china. that's more than my so's parents income for 1 year.

[MoonCarolCafe]

Actually the 1100 USAD is not big money,

[Jason+Joanna]

Actually the 1100 USAD is not big money, so what for for asking her sending the money back?  if you really love her, you should not ask her send the money back, there is something misssing for your and your GF misunderstanding. what a pity!!

In my opinion, even in the US $1100 is a lot of money (* then again, I am not rich *).

[cosmiclobster]

Actually the 1100 USAD is not big money

its big money to me- that could really go a long way in china. that's more than my so's parents income for 1 year.

If it's no big deal to you, maybe you would like to buy us our airfare home as a pre wedding present.

 

I think if you had read all of the details of this relationship from the earlier posts, you would know why his getting the money back was a good thing.

[Martytb]

Actually the 1100 USAD is not big money

its big money to me- that could really go a long way in china. that's more than my so's parents income for 1 year.

If it's no big deal to you, maybe you would like to buy us our airfare home as a pre wedding present.

 

I think if you had read all of the details of this relationship from the earlier posts, you would know why his getting the money back was a good thing.

Yeah, it's not the money at all. It's the reaction to the request.

Damn Jim, life just got very complicated.

[se_lang]

I would think if she was only out for a GC she probably would not have returned the money, I think you should take a step back and reassess everything so you won't live with regret.

[Mr. Abby]

I think so too!!!

[Mr. Abby's Sister]

Hiii, all my lovelies. The Sister thinks this is a great idea also. I just had a look at the cards and see the Jack of Swords is present. But I also see the King of Hearts to its right. There seems to be a sign of authority that could be overcome with love.

 

Come to The Sister for allll of your answers. The cards and crystals will tell the future.

[Jeikun]

cute pig B)

[Guest sea]

Yes, Jim , ask her to send back the money and write to GZ to cancel the case, don't let her take advantage of you.

Wish you good luck to find a nice woman!