robert

I am headed for Guangzhou in a couple of weeks. Limei's interview is may 24th. When I attend the ach the week prior can Limei attend it with me? Any other advice about the usefulness of ach? I just discovered what it was!!! Rob

I was joking with Limei once and told her that I wanted to take a picture of her in her night clothes. It was not a sexy outfit, just sleepwear. Her response very serious was: "Oh no, That not proper". I loved her all the more for that response!

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! We all wait for that moment..What's it feel like?

This world we live in is filled with a thousand accents. Be yourself and proud of what you have accomplished!

Outstanding response! Thank you for your intelligent reply. I agree with you that anything accrued during a marriage should be the property of both parties and the insult to suggest a prenup to your fiance' is a slap in the face of the relationship. I knew that I would not be able to propose this to Limei but was more questioning my own reason for changing directions of what I always thought I would do should I marry again. She is a wonderful person and I know that I could not insult her with a prenup proposal. In fact I doubt if she even understands what one is. I do appreciate your response. Thanks!

I have always said that if I were to marry again I would have a prenup. However Limei has diminished that position and I do not feel that neccesity with her. I guess that is why I posed this question? Are my feelings for her clouding my judgement? As stated I will be 54 in july...Limei turned 36 last december.

I have always said that if I were to marry again I would have a prenup. However Limei has diminished that position and I do not feel that neccesity with her. I guess that is why I posed this question? Are my feelings for her clouding my judgement?

Looking for input and opinions on this potential sensitive subject. I am 54 years of age and self retired. I am financially stable. I was married once previous for a period of 2 years and have been divorced for 26 years. My son was 6 weeks old when divorced and I have raised him myself. We are still very close today. We are all optimistic when we marry that it is the love of our life and it will last till our days end. But we also recognize the possibility that sometimes our hopes do not always work out that way. I am very excited about my forthcoming marriage to Limei and am not selfish about finances. I have now been supporting her in China for the past year. This started when we agreed that it would be advantageous for both of us if she quit her job and enrolled in english classes full time of which she did. I also moved her into a nicer apartment. When she comes here it is her decision whether she wants to work. It is not neccesary, only if she desires to. Hoping not to upset any of you with this question I am curious if any of you entered into a prenuptial agreement prior to marriage with your foriegn bride. If I were marrying an american lady I have to admit that I would not hesitate a prenuptial, but with Limei and her chinese culture I do not feel as strong about this direction. Is the love that I feel for her clouding my judgement???? Thanks for any input, thoughts and feelings that any of you have in regards to this subject..Rob

I say stick with the bar soap. It is easier and more fun {if you are showering with your lady } to pick it up should you drop it in the shower!!!! B)