Understand exactly what you mean.Not so hard to undertstand some one don't go around saying I/m married, thats not a bad thing when it comes to thier same gender, or maybe something to do with culture.(that though just can't see).Don't know if you have this problem to with the male friends, in real life or the ones on the internet.In a way this is whats said. If I tell them they will leave me a mile away. Maybe your even told yes maybe I did tell one or two I am married and the next thing she says.I was asked if I would leave them all now? Don't know if you have had this same thing. But would love to know why this is so. If it's realy a culture thing, just can't see that. Not from real husbands point of view. Whats it matter the country you come from?