Jerry & xiaomin

Honey, you've told me that America would recognise a marriage registered in any country as long as it's legal, but still, i just want our marriage to be originally registered under the law of the United States of American, my future home-county, the land of my dream. that's all. I was not lucky enough to be born, and educated in this great county, but you give me the chance to have a life there, honey, i owe you my life, but i will pay you with my life. I Love You, My Jerry

I hear you can get away with it in Texas, and maybe start a weird cult in the process! I think the Fed's are cracking down on that. So don't put all your eggs in one basket. Well, if they didn't crack down on it, they'd probably tax it, so there goes another pipe dream down the tubes!

I'll have to make sure she knows that I'm all in favor of whatever traditions she subscribes to... I'll stand behind her no matter what (I'll never get bored of something pretty to look at there!)

I hear you can get away with it in Texas, and maybe start a weird cult in the process!

I come complete with two cats, both front declawed, both indoor only, both very clean. I think xiaomin will tolerate them at first, and grow to love them in a short time. xiaomin wants a small dog, I'm all for this because I'm a dog lover from way back, and the cats will throw an initial hissy, but they'll be okay in a couple of weeks (cowering under the bed! LOL) I assume that xiaomin and I will handle household finances together, only having joint accounts, deciding on bills together, etc... but we haven't really discussed it... Honey? http://bp2.blogger.com/_DkDAmCqUUz8/R08qz-RagvI/AAAAAAAAAEw/JQxE3K9btec/s400/cat-dollars.jpg

I guess I was a little bit blinded by wanting to be xiaomin's husband so bad, that I planned on marrying her during my first visit to China. I'm not sure we even discussed it. I asked, she said yes, boom... But, thanks to the advice that we got here, we did some more research and decided to keep our separation (and visits) as simple as possible, and take the speedier route of the fianc¨¦e visa. She was unexpectedly overjoyed at not getting married in China! I had no clue... (We had a brief talk about her telling me when something isn't perfect in her world! It's critical to our happiness that everything is perfect for her. She's making such a big commitment, and change in her life to be with me, I owe her the universe.) http://www.mywackospace.com/images/graphics/romantic/gif_heart/gif_heart_373.jpg

Jimi, You got the right girl from the FUCKING wrong country, that's it. the one on the same boat with you!

Don't mean to interrupt, but I assume that RFE means "Request For Evidence" right? There's nothing listed in the FAQ Acronyms...