I could not agree more and that was the point that I was making but wanted others to take it a bit further on there own. Also, that if a relationship does not succeed, do not roll over and die but instead go on to a new endeavor. It is only then, when your basic needs are met (Maslow) that you can grow to your potential. There will always be those that think that they are the reincarnation of Errol Flynn. But, for most of us, life will always be a trade off for what it is we want in our lives. God Bless and goodbye....