Show support? Interesting. My SO actually does very well in China (TV related) and she doesn't need any money from me nor will she accept any. (She has no interest in pursuing that career over here.) Whenever we estimate that she is 4 months away from the interview I have asked that she quit her job and focus on more intensive English language courses. I will send money during that time so not to burden the family. As for visits, I receive two weeks of vacation each year and have booked both weeks in 2005 to be with her and my family in China. CR1/K3 Mailed April 3, 2005 Bob, Xiao Mei and Yilin