There are a couple of good friend websites relating to CFL. At the begining of our journey, I didn't know how to start, and I searched every possible information in the internet. Then I found Visajourney.com, and it is a big global marriage related visa discussion site, and I got a lot of valuable information from there and successfully completed and submit my application paperwork without a lawyer. But that site is national wide, and after the case has been forwarded to GUZ, I seemed could not get much more suggestions for the Guangzhou visa processing part there because many other people's cases are involved in different countries. But I luckly met some friends on VJ discussion board and they refered me to CFL. Then I discovered and joined this wonderful site, and got so many good information and suggestions! Then from CFL, I got to know there is a 001.com which is for many chinese ladies' discussions. Then I introduced it to my girl and it also helped her a lot. It is a COOL world, without them I might just be a "no-head-fly", and might spend thousands bulks......