Guest Pommey Posted June 20, 2009 Report Share Posted June 20, 2009 men , woman all the same. so does your wife call all she ? Link to comment
chilton747 Posted June 20, 2009 Report Share Posted June 20, 2009 she says he and she, him and her, but always to the wrong gender. Link to comment
Bert Posted June 20, 2009 Report Share Posted June 20, 2009 men , woman all the same. so does your wife call all she ? No, my fiancee mixes it all up, sometimes he, sometimes she. Confuses the heck out of me. Link to comment
Urkidding Posted June 20, 2009 Report Share Posted June 20, 2009 men , woman all the same. so does your wife call all she ? I have learned to accept my gender change! and he's has been here over 10 years now! Link to comment
amanda1969 Posted June 20, 2009 Report Share Posted June 20, 2009 men , woman all the same. so does your wife call all she ?This might because he/she has the same pronunciation in Chinese.Ëû/Ëý share the same pinyin as " ta". Link to comment
HongKong2LA Posted June 21, 2009 Report Share Posted June 21, 2009 men , woman all the same. so does your wife call all she ? I have learned to accept my gender change! and he's has been here over 10 years now!LOL...yes, sometimes I have to think twice to know for sure who she is talking about...he he Link to comment
chilton747 Posted June 21, 2009 Report Share Posted June 21, 2009 men , woman all the same. so does your wife call all she ?This might because he/she has the same pronunciation in Chinese.Ëû/Ëý share the same pinyin as " ta". I am certain that this is the reason. When I was learning Mandarin, that was one of the many things that surprised me about the language. Only "ta" for a pronoun? I guess they have to do a lot of finger pointing if they want to specify the person they are talking about. Link to comment
tonado Posted June 21, 2009 Report Share Posted June 21, 2009 Ta sounds the same for both he or she but they are written different.---------------------------------------------http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender-neutral_pronoun "In modern Chinese, there is no gender distinction in pronouns in the spoken language: the pronoun Ëû (t¨¡) means 'he', 'she' or 'it'. However, around the time of the May Fourth Movement, a new written form Ëý of the pronoun was created to specifically represent 'she', and Ëû is now sometimes restricted to meaning 'he'." Link to comment
Guest ShaQuaNew Posted June 21, 2009 Report Share Posted June 21, 2009 Seems all Chinese have trouble with English pronouns. I can be in the middle of a conversation with a Chinese person, thinking we are talking about a man, and then I hear: "Yes, she did that the other day." I think, who is she? It's a tough transition for Chinese people to make the transition to English where much of our conversation is gender-specific. Link to comment
chengdu4me Posted June 21, 2009 Report Share Posted June 21, 2009 "When our son go to brothers, after she to home, eat" This is what was said to me by Yan. I took that to mean dinner would be very late as our son was going to his cousins to have a sex change operation and when our daughter got home, we would go to dinner Link to comment
tonado Posted June 21, 2009 Report Share Posted June 21, 2009 http://www.kwanfamily.info/familytitles/familytitle.html She/he sounds the same in Chinese but family members in Chinese are not so simple. Link to comment
Guest Pommey Posted June 21, 2009 Report Share Posted June 21, 2009 funny as heck, ain't it got to love it though Link to comment
Kevin&Leilei Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 My lao po does it too. It can be very confusing at times. She tends to use "she" more often for males than "he" for females. Didn't she learn that you're supposed to use "he" when gender is unknown? I've been trying to correct her on it (at her request), but she doesn't seem to be improving yet. Link to comment
Randy W Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 My lao po does it too. It can be very confusing at times. She tends to use "she" more often for males than "he" for females. Didn't she learn that you're supposed to use "he" when gender is unknown? I've been trying to correct her on it (at her request), but she doesn't seem to be improving yet. Not when you expect it. I had a guy at work refer to his boss (a he) as "she". Didn't faze me at all Link to comment
Guest ShaQuaNew Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 My lao po does it too. It can be very confusing at times. She tends to use "she" more often for males than "he" for females. Didn't she learn that you're supposed to use "he" when gender is unknown? I've been trying to correct her on it (at her request), but she doesn't seem to be improving yet. Not when you expect it. I had a guy at work refer to his boss (a he) as "she". Didn't faze me at all I sometimes overlook the omission or misuse of pronouns like, He and She, but I have learned from my work that most everyone appreciates being told when they've spoken incorrectly. I suppose if you do it too much, it could be deemed annoying, so probably striking a balance for being corrective might be helpful. What's not helpful, is to ignore the misuse in an ongoing manner. I make a strong effort to speak using correct grammar to my wife and colleagues, and try not to "dumb" down the conversation by using words that might be more easily understood. My wife still sometimes exchanges "he for she," when she speaks, but also catches and corrects herself a lot more. Link to comment
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