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When chinese girls angry, they always say no, or I dont love you anymore or some other denied word. but in the bottom of their heart she mean yes. and when they say leave me alone they do not really want the guy walk away. I think at that moment a hug is what she want. What do you think?

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When chinese girls angry, they always say no, or I dont love you anymore or some other denied word. but in the bottom of their heart she mean yes. and when they say leave me alone they do not really want the guy walk away. I think at that moment a hug is what she want. What do you think?

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One can learn from the other's strong and WEAK points!!

 

A fundamental difference between east and west is one's worldview; the east is one of integration (the three philosophies mixed as one is a great example in my opinion of the chinese ability to understand life as "both/and". The west is one of separation (our desire for dividing down to the atom; for individualism; to compartmentalize and make distinctions is our way of treating life as "either/or".

 

Here is my theory on why chinese should be able to understand western way better than western person understand chinese way (but that doesn't mean you agree with it!):

 

To tie a shoe takes alot of effort, to make two parts seemingly as one whole. (The western struggle).

 

To untie a shoe is very easy; pull the one string and it becomes two... (The eastern advantage!).

 

Try to ask a western to understand ÀÏ×Ó:

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I can't expain this in chinese... so forgive the english!