A conversation with two Chinese women.

[LeeFisher3]

This is really an old question that has been discussed many times, here in CFL.  I should have noted that I would like to know how you would have answered this woman. 

 

Of course there are many answers.  Each person has their own reason and purpose for seeking an Asian wife.  So, certainly, no one shoe fits all.  But, her question to me was a general question.  So, generally speaking, if you were to answer her, would it be much different than what I told her?

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I would have to say that what appealed to me most about my wife is that she wanted us to build a life together, not independently.

 

She supports me 100% and I do the same for her, it's all about sharing our life together, one day she might take the lead and another it falls to me. We ask each others advice.

 

It's not about me and not about her, everything is all about us.

 

Your mileage may vary.

[david_dawei]

It's not about me and not about her, everything is all about us.

 

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that is so true to us to a fault.. I'm not even allowed my own plate for eating ! And if I get anything to eat, I'm only allowed half of it

[MikeandRong]

It's not about me and not about her, everything is all about us.

 

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that is so true to us to a fault.. I'm not even allowed my own plate for eating ! And if I get anything to eat, I'm only allowed half of it

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Word for word, that is so true.

[LeeFisher3]

So, A yenta now you are also?0„2

 

-James

 

A Yenta?0„2 Wasn't that a Barbara Streisand movie? B)

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lol,

 

No, that was Yentl! BUT Yenta (a jewish gossip or busybody) was also the matchmaker in that movie.

 

Commonly used to mean 'matchmaker'.

 

-James

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Barbara Streisand

 

Obviously your too young to remember "Fiddler on the Roof" staring Topal.

[Dennis143]

http://www.fredoneverything.net/AsianWomen.shtml

 

Here's a interesting perspective on the differences between American and Asian women. I hope this isn't something that the mods determine as American-woman bashing. I don't read it that way. I find it an honest accounting of the differences that perhaps American women who may read this can learn from.

 

 

 

 

Of course, this doesn't imply that us American men don't have our faults, but that's another thread.

[Rakkasan]

http://www.fredoneverything.net/AsianWomen.shtml

 

Here's a interesting perspective on the differences between American and Asian women.  I hope this isn't something that the mods determine as American-woman bashing.  I don't read it that way.  I find it an honest accounting of the differences that perhaps American women who may read this can learn from.

 

 

 

 

Of course, this doesn't imply that us American men don't have our faults, but that's another thread.

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Thank you for not crediting me with that article Dennis.

[jemmyell]

http://www.fredoneverything.net/AsianWomen.shtml

 

Here's a interesting perspective on the differences between American and Asian women.  I hope this isn't something that the mods determine as American-woman bashing.  I don't read it that way.  I find it an honest accounting of the differences that perhaps American women who may read this can learn from.

 

 

 

 

Of course, this doesn't imply that us American men don't have our faults, but that's another thread.

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Dennis,

 

That is a VERY good article and really cuts to the heart of the matter!

 

-James

[david_dawei]

he stated some things very well...

 

and proverbially... where there are 'chips', there are boulders

[izus]

i personally think its the karaoke

[izus]

women are women no matter where you go....

sure there are certain traits that one race might have more then others. but if we men think we are in charge of anything thats a laugh.

the good woman only allows you to think that.

the one that doesnt care just tells you what to do...

yes dear.....

 

personally i say im in charge

[Mick]

http://www.fredoneverything.net/AsianWomen.shtml

 

Here's a interesting perspective on the differences between American and Asian women.  I hope this isn't something that the mods determine as American-woman bashing.  I don't read it that way.  I find it an honest accounting of the differences that perhaps American women who may read this can learn from.

 

 

 

 

Of course, this doesn't imply that us American men don't have our faults, but that's another thread.

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Dennis,

 

That is a VERY good article and really cuts to the heart of the matter!

 

-James

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Really good article. The author's points are well taken.

[Yuanyang]

http://www.fredoneverything.net/AsianWomen.shtml

 

Here's a interesting perspective on the differences between American and Asian women.  I hope this isn't something that the mods determine as American-woman bashing.  I don't read it that way.  I find it an honest accounting of the differences that perhaps American women who may read this can learn from.

 

 

 

 

Of course, this doesn't imply that us American men don't have our faults, but that's another thread.

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Dennis,

 

That is a VERY good article and really cuts to the heart of the matter!

 

-James

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Really good article. The author's points are well taken.

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Those 5 words do sum it up regarding American femmes.