Tony, I'm by no means an expert here, I've read lots of good advice from many folks. My first trip was last October, spent almost the whole month there, and it was awesome. I'm leaving again Friday for my second trip. I wasn't to worried I might forget something, as it can easily be purchased when you are there, cheaper. Even house shoes. They got some for me, but it took a while to find some my size. lol Travel light would be my best suggestion, fighting a crowd of people trying to squeeze though a small opening to get on a plane/train whatever is no picknick. Even just walking down the street. Tiny little chinese girls will muscle right in front of you. If you are lugging a couple of big bags, they'll run you over, IMHO. lol New Years will only be worse. Jie told me before I left, "don't worry you run out of clothes, we can wash". Others had some good suggestion about the paper work. But my first trip, like Dave said, I just wanted to consentrate on her. I just wanted to see how we were together, and savor that time. I was there almost the whole month and knew her a year before I went, but the time still flew by to fast. JMHO, Jeff