Our plans are to meet during the up and coming Spring Festival in 2017. We chat practically everyday. Our plans if we decided to pursue our lives together is to go the 129F visa. My fiancee wants to come here and let her 15 year old daughter finish her schooling in China and live with her grandmother. I'm a real greenhorn when it comes to this type of dating. When we discussed our future together and the needs of her daughter she said it would cost 3,500 RMB a month for her support. I thought this to be quite high for her daughter. I realize a parent wants the best for their child. My fiancee is a self employed owner of a beauty parlor and she earns 4,000 RMB per month. She also owns her home there with a mortgage of 2,000 RMB per month. After paying her house payment she has 2,000 RMB left to cover their basic needs. The home she has she wishes to keep it and use it when she returns to visit. I'm just confused now. Any suggestions?