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I checked on flights to Dandong from my city. They are available but the flights are 61 hours with long lay overs with the return trip almost as bad. I going to check on what Thomas said doing. Fly into a major city like Shanghai then book a flight from there to Dandong. Has anyone ever been or know of a person who has been to Dandong? When we meet she wishes for me to stay at her home. Then travel to some other cities. Maybe go to North Korea.

Hello. My girlfriend and myself have made tentative plans to meet for China's National Day. I will be flying into Shenyang, China will she will meet me there and then drive to her city of Dandong. Her city can not accommodate commercial airline. We will have a drive of about 160 miles after we meet in Shenyang. She does not own a car but her good friend will let her borrow her car. Has anyone flied to Shenyang and been to Dandong? He has assured me there are many activities to do in and around her city. I plan on staying there for 3 weeks, Thank you for the advice that has been given to me.

I'm surprised this topic is still alive. My girl friend has been back in touch with me again. She said she was mislead on many things like myself about on line International dating. She wants me to meet her and get a better handle on us. I know its not like meeting for coffee here at the local Starbucks.We have never met but I did start having strong feelings for her when we where online together. What to do? My friends have encouraged me to go there and meet her. They said Columbus took the chance. But he had 2 other ships along with him. I just wonder what are some of variables I should be looking out for.

Thank you for all your suggestions. I don't think that I am going to pursue my girlfriend any longer. Yesterday we discussed many things about our future. When I asked her if she would sell her home to lessen the burden on us. She said no way. She wants to continue her business here in the US as well. All she talked about was after she gets her business going she would be able to repay me. She said I should not be so cheap with her and be more generous with her. I think she would be better off finding a very rich man to satisfy her demands. I will be 61 soon and I think being with her I would become a debt slave for life. Thanks again for all the advice. I am a lot more wiser now.

Our plans are to meet during the up and coming Spring Festival in 2017. We chat practically everyday. Our plans if we decided to pursue our lives together is to go the 129F visa. My fiancee wants to come here and let her 15 year old daughter finish her schooling in China and live with her grandmother. I'm a real greenhorn when it comes to this type of dating. When we discussed our future together and the needs of her daughter she said it would cost 3,500 RMB a month for her support. I thought this to be quite high for her daughter. I realize a parent wants the best for their child. My fiancee is a self employed owner of a beauty parlor and she earns 4,000 RMB per month. She also owns her home there with a mortgage of 2,000 RMB per month. After paying her house payment she has 2,000 RMB left to cover their basic needs. The home she has she wishes to keep it and use it when she returns to visit. I'm just confused now. Any suggestions?

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Amen.

Thank you for your suggestions. As we move along we are finding out more about this process. I have a friend who married a Filipino woman about 6 years ago as they went through the process. He recently told me that freshly divorced man will have hard time getting a visa. My fiancee has been divorced now for 8 years. Myself now only 2 months. My ex and myself have been separated since July of last year. He said I should wait a year before attempting this. Any truth to this? Also he said our age difference of almost 18 years younger then me could hurt us.

She does have a daughter who is 14 now. Their plans are to let her daughter finish school in China. Her grandmother plans on taking care of the child during this time.

Good afternoon. My intended asked me which would better to marry in China or come to the US via the 129 visa and marry in America? I could not give a definite answer to her. Any suggestions?