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Yeah, I agree with you. What job are you doing in the US? Is it easy for chinese who can speak OK english to find a decent job in the US?

Credzba, thank you so much! You can be a motivate speaker. I feel much better after hearing your inspiration! Worrying has no use other than stress myself out. There are so many possibilities but I need to be more positive.thank you again.

Thank you for sharing your story, Tsap seui. I have to say wenyan is so lucky to have you for caring about his family so much. That shows how much you love and care about her...I think it is more important for his dad to see how much you care than visiting the US...good luck for you and wenyan.you two deserve to be happy!

The market for American products has grown a lot in recent years, especially brand products. Buying in the US is cheaper made many Chinese buy things from the people who are living in the US.There are many websites for this kind of business. So I wonder has anyone done this in here? The extensive shipping fee can be a big problem right? I am thinking of doing this as something on the side once I get the US...so thank you in advance. I am not sure how to reply to a specific person in this forum that's why sometimes I don't reply back...my writing is worse than my speaking and listening...so I am not sure if I expressed myself well.

Thank you so much for all your stories and encouragement. In china you can always hear people say they are old after 30 years old, i guess they don't mean the age, they mean the determination and heart for becoming sucessful have died out slowly. Life is full of uncertainties, i wish there was some sort of power so we can see our future. I guess all we can do is to control today...

with long distance and expensive plane tickets, once we move to the states,I probably can't visit my home as often, mu parents live in a very small town which is hours away from Beijing, that will make my future visit more difficult, so i wonder how often do you visit china?

Thank you! How long it took out to get out of the depression? I just feel like i have already felt depressed about thr idea of moving to the states...i visited the US three time for christmas in the past three years, each time was more than a month. I just couldn't help coming back to china each time. But the thing is i don't enjoy staying in china neither because of the pollution every day...just...i don't know, i guess if i were younger i might feel more excited about moving to the US(i was born in 1985). But i guess it will makr sense to move there sooner than later.

argh.... we are so alike! We Chinese women just can't stop working, anywhere! I think you are on the right path -- you started to prepare, asking questions, visit CFL. I'm very proud of you!! Small town can be lonely! Apart from all the common ways we discuss on the forum, you have a big family here! When I was depressed last winter, in this small town covered with snow, didn't see any living thing! I came to cry on CFL, I was flooded with warmth and care. We will watch you

Thank you for all of your replies. I guess I saw too many dramas about mother and daughter in law on tv and internet,also in real life. The conflicts are unavoidable. It's a lot to do with the man's attitude towards this matter.

I am going move to the states with my american husband next year. i am a little concern about the in law relations. Most chinese mother in law and daughter in law relations are not so easy to deal with. So girls, i want to know how would you discribe your relationship with your in law? What should i be careful about the in law relationship? What's the difference between china and the US on this matter? Thanks a lot!

Thanks a lot Joecy! That really helped a lot. I am currently teaching English by myself in china. But i always worry about what the life would be like in the US. Mostly about what job i could do. I am also a little bit worry about my relationship with my mother in law, since we are planning not to live too far away from them. She is a nice person but i think the in law problem is the same through the world...i also worry about the changing of the lifestyle. We are living in a city now but my busband really like to live in a small town. That to me is a little bit too "lonely"... i am a worry person. So...any suggestions?

Thank you so much! All your amswers reallu helped a lot. I have another question, like some schools requirea bachelor degree, i have a bachelor degree in china, which is English for teaching, is that ok? Or i have to get american bachelor degree?

Thank you so much! All your amswers reallu helped a lot. I have another question, like some schools requirea bachelor degree, i have a bachelor degree in china, which is English for teaching, is that ok? Or i have to get american bachelor degree?

Hi, everyone, my husband and i met in Shenyang where we spent almost six yeats together since we were in love. Now we are working on my visa, its in the process. i might be able to immigrante to the US at the end of the year. i worry about job a lot. i have a banchlor degree for English in china. i have been teaching english privately by myself since 2012. i guess there won't be a lot of job choices for me when i go to the US. my english is ok, i guess i can get around with it. so i wonder if anyone can tell me the following question s? 1.How can i become a chinese teacher in public or private school? what are the requirements? 2. How can i get a teacher license? 3.is chinese a desirable language to learn? How will the private tutoring go? 4. What else can i work as when my only skill is speaking chinses? Can anyone tell me your working experience in the US,please????