Colorado

Elders day huh? I don't have any chrysanthemum wine, but I'll sub some Pu tao jiu instead. I'm 49, so maybe I can claim this as my day/night.

Brother is that the truth or what!?! Are yours and my wife twins? I have learned that the arguments are just arguments and I shouldn't take them so seriously as a measure of how our relationship is going. She says, "Argue is argue. Emotion is emotion. "Huan nan yu gong." (Through thick and thin.)"

Yeah, I looked up on the web the list of area consulates in the US. (http://www.visarite.com/chnConsulate.htm) Then went to the web and typed in "chinese connsulate" and found (http://houston.china-consulate.org/eng/) They explained that each consulate has an territory of states that they cover. You can't even contact them by mail, that they prefer that you use a service to do business with them. You were lucky! We are using a service (VisaRite). Approx. $83. Takes @ 14 - 21 days. Anybody ever use them before and if so, how did you like them?

Ron, I think you two are an outstanding couple! Overcome is just that in your case. Overcome! Overcome the harshness of an unhappy official with his job. Overcome the dissappointment of getting a blueslip. Overcome the adversity of collecting more info than you should have to. Overcome the mixture of emotions and doubt that can overwhelm a couple's commitment. Overcome whatever is thrown at you to ultimately get a your pink slip and visa. You both deserve each other because you forged on and did what you had to be together. Soon, you will live happily everafter. I am proud to read your post on your interview. It is heartlifting to see and will inspire other couples to keep going no matter what. True Love will prevail. Just look at rlheim Rick. I have no doubts that Chilton Charles will eventually be reunited with his SO also. Thanks for sharing that peice. I too will post our saga as soon as Juan is able to send me email. Jim

Yang Jiahua is the best! Yangjiahua and his wife are the most outstanding people in this world! They go all out for your business. I truly believe that they do everything that they can to help others that stay at their hotel because they love what they do! Thay also love helping people during these times of confusion for us that seem lost in Guangzhou trying to get our SO's visas. If you have a question about the visa process, he has tons of answers. You have problems with your paperwork, he has experience in finding what you need. Not sure about how organized your papers are, he'll help you read over them to make sure they are. WOW!!! I give him and his wife and their hotel service (from 1 - 10) a 15!! What other hotel loans you a cell phone? He deffinetly has my respect and gratitude forever. I highly, HIGHLY recommend his hotel for the stay while SO has the interview. My Yajuan and I thank him and his wife very very much for all their help that they gave us. I truly believe that they were a big part in our visa success. So much great advice they have. Xiexie ni, Yang jiahua!!! Xiexie ni bangzhu women he qianju yimin qianzheng wumian!! Women feichang xiexie nimen dou!! Jimmy and Yajuan P.S. Oh by the way, we passed May 24, 2007!!!!

Yangjiahua and his wife are the most outstanding people in this world! They go all out for your business. I truly believe that they do everything that they can to help others that stay at their hotel because they love what they do! Thay also love helping people during these times of confusion for us that seem lost in Guangzhou trying to get our SO's visas. If you have a question about the visa process, he has tons of answers. You have problems with your paperwork, he has experience in finding what you need. Not sure about how organized your papers are, he'll help you read over them to make sure they are. WOW!!! I give him and his wife and their hotel service (from 1 - 10) a 15!! What other hotel loans you a cell phone? He deffinetly has my respect and gratitude forever. I highly, HIGHLY recommend his hotel for the stay while SO has the interview. My Yajuan and I thank him and his wife very very much for all their help that they gave us. I truly believe that they were a big part in our visa success. So much great advice they have. Xiexie ni, Yang jiahua!!! Xiexie ni bangzhu women he qianju yimin qianzheng wumian!! Women feichang xiexie nimen dou!! Jimmy and Yajuan

YES BABY!!!!! Congrats Ron and Ivy!!!!! I was really wishing good luck and thinking about you and your laopo! I am so relieved that you too were approved!!!! Again, thanks for your support on mine! Jim

Hi Jim! Yeah, it was great talking and laughing with you too at the "Sit and Wait" coffee shop. I would like to get together with you to and my SO one day when they arrive here. We could meet somewhere or do something. We'll get it all together then. Thanks buddy.

Thanks Charles! Your right about GUZ in not really knowing. I wish they could just send someone out to spend time with us on a personal level so that they could see just how true of a relationship we have with our SOs. Alas, after all we do live in the "most free" country in the world...... don't we? Hard to swallow when we are told "NO!" or that we can't do what we wish most with all our hearts. But, yes! I do think that our relationships become much stronger when we dedicate ourselves to each other with ou SOs..."huan nan yu gong".

Thanks Jim. Actually from Mississippi. I just use the name "Colorado" because it is the most beautiful place I've ever been, (besides China). I am very fond of Colorado because of all the adventures I've had there, the camping sites, the rock climbing, the clear skies and water .... some well missed Jeep parts there.....

Sorry I haven't posted in a while. I was a little down after the first blue slip (March 28 2007) and have been so busy with chinese, pinyin and "hanci" lessons (all self taught) and getting more requested documents together for my JuanJuan that I have little time for much else. I do come and read alot though and posting to those others who have successful visas. "Sigh!" Well, My JuanJuan had her 2nd interview (overcome) Tuesday May 22nd. She turned in the requested documents and now we are waiting. She was told that she would have to come back on Thursday to receive the results. Her appointment is at 2:30 pm there. So I should hear something from her about the time that I awake here Thursday am. We are both very "jinzhang" now. We have waited and she has done a spectacular job of tracking down her ex. with the help of her father. She took a train to Huanghua to get his work records, housing records, temp. ID card (for work and is different from his hukou which is their old address.), police station proof of ID and housing records, a statement from his company stating he actually had lived and worked there 2 years prior to their divorce and they pay for his residence, and all this notorized! She had to take a train from Shenyang to Huanghua (12 hours each way and back) and then hop on another train to Guangzhou 5 days later (28 hour ride). I ask, is that deligence or what?! She ought to be a PI or a bounty hunter. Well anyway, we are now waiting. I truly hope that we will pass this time. If not, I know she will absolutely be crushed! I will too! Hoping for some encouraging thoughts, words, and even though I'm not religious, prayers! I have seen so many others have happy outcomes and I am so very "xingfu" for them. I just hope that our time has come also. When I read rlheim's (Rick and Yanlan) great news, I began to have hope. They are the one's that have had it the roughest along with Chilton747 (Charles). I really do hope all can have success as quickly as possible. Thanks for reading and any "shufu" words you may have. Jim

Anyone know what this means?: yongxinliangku

The silk worms were pretty good. 1 SW = 4 eggs in protien content. Ate 12 before I moved on to next dish. Horse stomach. Oh yeah baby! A little spicy but Haochi!!! Grilled Kidney. Great with pijiu The "complete" chicken soup was good. Including the head. Fish eyes........tried it, moving on. Snails. Yep, but the small ones. I think I was still hungry after eating 100 of them. Spent more time and energy trying to get them out of the shell than they were providing me. Fried Shrimp. The "whole" thing. Squid on a stick. Yummy!! Grilled and tentacles flailing. I think it's spelled- Yueyian? The big spiky stinky fruit??? That was the nastiest tasting thing I tried. Asians just love it. It's expensive they say, I wouldn't give a clump of dirt for it. Yuk!!! Clams , Wasabi , Pijiu , and SO's good family with a sense of humor. No matter if you can't speak each other's language! Just try it it with your mouth closed and let the laughter begin!

The thin towels, yes! And the more it sheds the better. I tried to get her to let me buy one that is in better shape but she is set on using that one until it disappears in her hands one day. My hair brush was covered in that stupid towel's lent. B) She's in for a big surprise when she comes here to see all of my Big, Fluffy, Bear Fur (thick) towels. In Meiguo, "The bigger the better!"

I have noticed that a great deal of asian women in the US who were on match.com desired a man making 100,000+ and have at least a 6 yr degree. . There are asian women here in my area but meeting someone suitable is very hard. You just don't move in the same social circle This is what I have seen also. The asian women here looking for American men want them to be financially doing well. It's not a bad thing, but those women are the ones who are just looking for the same thing that they were looking for in asia... financial stability over everything else.