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Yuanyang

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  1. I did not know any of this on my trip, and hugged Jen when we first met, hugged and kissed her good-bye at the airport, and even hugged her sister good-bye in the hotel lobby. I never had any hint of doing anything wrong or unexpected.

    It was so very difficult to not have one last good-bye kiss and embrace at the airport. My precious Xiao Mei had kept a straight face all the time, no quivering lips but her eyes were filled with tears. This is the part I dread the most about my return trip. Leaving her again.

  2. Bob, I had one of those huge "regret" moments as soon as I sent it.  This is not about you, me, or politics, and I want to apoligize to you in the same forum where I made my mistake.  (PM me if you wanna strap me to the whippin' post, so this topic can return to its original intent.)

    Please no regrets and no offense was taken on my part. As far as I'm concerned we are all family here talking around the kitchen table, OK?

  3. I totally agree. Especially when we are suppose to have such a strong "Family Value" government!

     

    If they believe that XiaoMei and I are committing fraud then watch us, check in on us for the first year. But allow my wife to live with me.

     

    This "process" has led to some serious discussions about me leaving the USA and living with my wife in China. China is considering a so-called Green Card system of their own you know. Were it not for my son (he's 25) I would take her up on her offer and chuck everything away here and live with her.

  4. Thank you everyone! Such great ideas!

     

    I did buy our Mother two boxes of American ginseng because a Chinese friend said it was the best 'balanced' of all of the ginseng types. (And would give her 'bragging rights' with her friends.)

     

    I collect coins. So for her siblings I purchased from the US Mint the Texas state quarter spoons. Not fancy, maybe a little cheezy, but they aren't made in China :lol: as was my beloved Longhorn hat.

  5. I had limited experience with chop-sticks; the occasionaly oriental food, sushi bar etc... My Precious SO made certain that at each meal I was given a fork. I always thanked her but was willing to starve before using a fork in China :greenblob: The family was happy to see my efforts (and progress!) and I was amused to see them suppress their laughter. :greenblob:

  6. I'm seeing my wife in 2 weeks!!! :greenblob:

     

    I have gifts for mother, brothers, sisters and my new daughter, but what is a special present for her? When I ask her she only says "You". Very loving, no help. Anything I mention she says "We buy here" or "Do not spend money on me".

     

    I'm speaking in broad terms here. Anybody have experience with gifts from the USA (and not made in China) that are considered "special"?

     

    Also what are the DON'Ts? Is it not OK to buy your wife lingerie? Clothing?

  7. Show support? Interesting. My SO actually does very well in China (TV related) and she doesn't need any money from me nor will she accept any. (She has no interest in pursuing that career over here.)

     

    Whenever we estimate that she is 4 months away from the interview I have asked that she quit her job and focus on more intensive English language courses. I will send money during that time so not to burden the family.

     

    As for visits, I receive two weeks of vacation each year and have booked both weeks in 2005 to be with her and my family in China.

     

    CR1/K3 Mailed April 3, 2005

     

    Bob, Xiao Mei and Yilin

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