I 'm so sorry to hear that, my sister, be strong !!! Whatever happens to you,just remember your Chinese family always open their arms.Only they do watch and care about you.This man is a cheap and nasty #%$@. I knew some of guys in CFL played games in both families and declared he and his ex are still good friends (hahahahha)because of their kids,belive it or not??? Just like you said,my sister, we came here because we trust in him ,love him.and now he became angry,yelled ,he knows he lied too much before you came here. You've got to re-learned from him,with a smiling. One door is closed ,the other door is open for us . Keep smiling and take care