Hi,everyone: I am a member on 001,and i am new here.i have read this topic for several days,but i didn't mention it to my fiance until today.When i asked him:"Dear,Have you read the hot topic on CFL about 001 ladies going to GZ consulate?"he said:"yes",i asked him:" how do you think that?"he answered me:"I knew it was a joke when I first read it...I think the Cookie lady overreacted,I know that American humor can be misunderstood, but I think after a few days he explained that it was just a joke and no offense was meant, but the Cookie lady made personal attacks on him, and I think she was wrong for that ,I know if she was that upset she should have posted that she thought it was offensive and after he apologized she should have left it alone,but she wanted to attack anyone who thought the joke was funny or harmless, and why would she attack Fei because she wants to show off new clothes? I thought that is what women like to do..Have a get-together and if someone has new clothes show them off, Cookie was so mean in her posts...I think that is bad" here i should explain that my fiance is native American.I am so glad to have known my fiance's feeling is so alike mine in this case again. no wonder,that is all way of our thinking,otheriwse,it's impossible that we don't have any argument in the past 1 year.I LOVE YOU,my baby. as a chinese lady, i think Cookie is too overbearing, i don't know how come if her LG or fiance read her posts here.most of chinese ladies are gentle and soft,they are not aggressive,that is one of reasons why my fiance wanted to find a chinese lady as wife.i am really feel sorry to have known this type of person in member of 001 and CFL. ok.i will have to stop it,because i don't want to get any attack from Cookie. thank you. Greenlemon