Some body help me

[taishan]

Our final day has come. My wife is having the interview for CR1 in less than 12 hours (June 30). I just can not stop thinking and worrying about it. I have started the final count down for more than a week already. Any thing I can do to make myself relax?

[BuffaloPaul]

Our final day has come.  My wife is having the interview for CR1 in less than 12 hours (June 30).  I just can not stop thinking and worrying about it.  I have started the final count down for more than a week already.  Any thing I can do to make myself relax?

Go to the gym and get some vigorous exercise

[Dan R]

Let me ask you this. Can you do anything more at this point? Of course not. So chill and wait to hear her good news. The odds are way in your favor.

 

I wish both of you much happiness. Is your place clean enough for a Chinese woman to move into? That is the thing to worry about. Forget the gym! Clean! Clean! Clean! You should have no time left to worry.

[olemanoman1950]

I felt the same way you did. But I just said to myself its too late to worry about anything now.

[frank1538]

Don't worry about the things you can control because you can control them. Don't wory about the things you can't control because you can't control them. In other words, don't worry about anything. The only thing you can do at this point is to give your wife a call or e-mail and tell her how great she is, how well she'll do, and that you love her no matter what. Give her confidence, and she'll be just fine.

[taishan]

Thank you for everyone.

 

I have done everything I can think of and everyone suggested to prepare for the interview. But GUZ is really out of our control. Right now we just try our best, hope for the best but prepare for the worst

[kfman]

Hey Taishan,

I was just in your shoes 24 hours ago...

 

Just pace.. add meaningless post and build up your blue thingie while you wait.

 

[david_dawei]

So I guess that going into the bathroom to throw up doesn't really help ?

 

Find something to relax you or keeps you busy.. gym, clean, posting.. they all sound like time passers ! Be confident like she is !! You'll get good new soon enough

[obxtrainman]

Relax, breathe deeply, and enjoy the moment.

[kaigaorui]

Wow. Its the 11th hour on race day. My heart goes out to both of you.

 

I sit and try to put myself in your shoes right now. I think I would be most worried about the neatness of the house more than anything. I have been a single guy with teenagers way too long.

 

I am anxiously awaitning a full field report after briefing.

 

Godspeed

[kfman]

Wow.  Its the 11th hour on race day.  My heart goes out to both of you. 

 

I sit and try to put myself in your shoes right now.  I think I would be most worried about the neatness of the house more than anything.  I have been a single guy with teenagers way too long.

 

I am anxiously awaitning a full field report after briefing.

 

Godspeed

Sound like me. Do your teenage daughters help? I know mine dont, without your typical parent/teenager dispute...

 

mostly I just avoid it and close thier bedroom doors.

 

[taishan]

My wife is inside the consulate now. Hoping to hear good news soon

[kfman]

hmmmmm... sounds just like me 24 hours ago.. wow.

 

 

[kfman]

Is your case CR-1?

[taishan]

My wife and I are on the phone now. She has passed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Need to get ready for her to come here now.

 

PS. Bahan, Yes, it is CR1