Baba is 79. The chances of seeing him again after this visit are, in all honesty, slim. The main reason we brought them here was to give them a rest and peace for awhile. Baba's appreciation for his "good son-in-law" has worked wonders for improving our marriage. I would be more than willing to foot the bill over 20 years if need be. But, was hoping to find another way. Will still be looking. Call some hospitals, get some advice. Anything but add to the fires of immigrant (in whatever form) prejudice. In other words, we will pay our way.